"I have a situation brewing. I like masturbating but I have been findingit more and more difficult to get hard and cum. It feels like having a condom on. It's not like I'm sitting at a desk all day I'm at home during this pandemic mess. I don't feel depressed or anything like that. I get plenty of exercise at home with my stationary bike and dumbells. What gives?"
The first thing doctors may suspect is a lack of blood flow and suggest some type of Erectile Dysfunction meds like Viagra or Cialis. But I don't think that's happening here.
If there's a lowered sensation in your cock when you attempt to jack off...and you aren't distracted by other things, you've made mention of only one thing that could be the cause of your problem.
That stationary bike.
They can be as deadly to your boners as the real thing.
While I applaud you for getting exercise, that bike could be the culprit. It's most likely crushing the nerve bundle in the Perineum. This is the nerve that urological surgeons try to spare during Prostate removal. Early signs of this are a slight numbness in the cock. Then the difficulty to get a decent hard-on crops up. You have to work harder and harder (no pun intended) to reach ejaculation due to a lack of feeling along the shaft and particularly in the glans (head).
If you'll notice, those stationary exercise bikes don't provide proper seats for men. Some offer what they call Unisex seats. No. Not good enough. You have to purchase one and install it yourself.
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Good thoughts on the matter. I hope you are doing well, my Dear Friend. Wishing you all the very best. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
When I ride my bike, I change how I sit in the seat constantly... trying to move back as far as I can on the seat, so that the little pointy part doesn't press hard against the bottom of my pubis (?) I think that is the term. I can feel something pressing down there and it never feels good... more like a tourniquet. So... great advice, doc!
I had and still have the same sensations while masturbating.
Less sensations from my dick and less harder erection even if after many strokes I can ejaculate.
Now I found out later, in 2016 that I was experiencing diabetes and that hillness did affect my blood vessels and nerves too.
This was my answer of what was going on some years before I had this diagnosis.
For sur, consulting your doctor to investigate all your health condition is a good start.
Maybe not your case but it could help you to see one path.
OMG
WHAT?
So the bike can push on your perineum and fuck you over? Who knew? Somebody better tell Dave!
XOXO
I hope it's nothing more serious than the saddle of his bicycle. At least that's not contagious unlike the "pandemic mess". I see no objection to the installation of a saddle which facilitates the circulation of the blood.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Thank you! Thank you for this important info.... I've been experiencing less sensation during my ejaculations and was wondering why. The edging is good but at times my climax is so so at most. It's been happening now for at least the last two months on and off, mostly on... Since I'm not going to the gym now, and haven't been since march, I work out in my basement with weights, elliptical machine, but my recumbent bike broke. So I bought a bike to ride the trails and park. I quickly found out I was not a 15 year old kid who used to ride all over the city for hours. After one day that seat wore my ass and taint out. Never Again! lol I purchase biker pants/shorts immediately. The pants made the ride bearable. I've realized that I have to buy a new seat, something like the one you have above. ((Do you know who sells that seat))? Hey I'm past 50 and still have great masturbation ejaculation sessions. And, I knew men riding bikes could screw up guys during their baby making years, but I should have been aware that the bike riding "could" be my recent and current problem. I think it is considering the timing. Haven't rode a bike in many years but I love it. I will get the new seat though. Oh, it took me a month to purchase a bike. They were selling out as soon as they came in the stores during June and July. F**king Covid....aghhh
I agree about the seat on the stationary bike. When I retired I started riding my bike with Bryn when he went for his morning run. I enjoyed the exercise...and watching him in his running shorts...but I digress. After a few months I noticed that my erections weren't what they used to be. Bryn is no nonsense when it comes to health issues. He booked an appointment with our GP (a very practical man who doesn't write prescriptions at the drop of a hat). To make a long story short...he asked the right questions. He told us to change the seat on my bike, take a week or two off from riding, and gave me a cushion to sit on that is designed to take pressure off your balls and perineum.
(It is used by men that have had prostate surgery.) It wasn't long before I had boners that a cat couldn't scratch.
@ Tom - That particular seat is sold here for 30.89 (US): https://www.lightinthebox.com/en/p/bike-saddles-bicycle-saddles-cycling-wateproof-anti-shake-damping-anti-wear-wearable-stretchy-pu-leather-polyurethanes-steel_p6525465.html?currency=USD&litb_from=paid_adwords_shopping&sku=1_6916&country_code=us&utm_source=google_shopping&utm_medium=cpc&adword_mt=&adword_ct=444179675409&adword_kw=&adword_pos=&adword_pl=&adword_net=u&adword_tar=&adw_src_id=2907233386_10379876107_105843479169_pla-528896765980&gclid=CjwKCAjww5r8BRB6EiwArcckCy7DG7lfNIMCtkDvyniGnp-TVr_TRleZO6PgNaCx5tyX0vLzYHfTTBoCtMIQAvD_BwE
Don't delay!
@ Bruce - You have one very smart man there! (And a very good doc!)
use that seat, please. It's genial
Thanks Whack Attack
Great post! Great advice!
Good advice, my mind didn't immediately go to the bike as possibly being a problem.
I actually first thought of a failure to drain, but it's not a constant thing, and I stop hurting after cumming.
I've also been skipping meals, largely because not enough time in the day. (So I need to cook bigger meals.)
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