Happy Hallowe-en!

Well, Happy Hallowe'en, folks! Here's some costume suggestions for you...

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Hope you all get the proper treats.

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Get naked with some buddies

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And have some mutual fun

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(Em)Brace Yourself First

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Once a person can get past all the negative influences and ignore the constant repression that bombards him, and he is finally free to stop hiding what he has, how it functions, and embrace himself

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then - and only then - will he be able to properly embrace and enjoy sex with another person.

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Get (Cock) Positive

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Blogger buddy Westernstock, over at Enhanced Masculinity, has been doing a series on the Positive and Negative aspects of sexuality. It's a very good series and deserves to be read - particularly if religion ties you into fits of guilt over your natural instincts regarding sex.

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The issue we all face as humans is accepting that we are sexual beings; we engage in sex for reasons other than procreation. Throughout our lives this simple fact of life is oppressed by religious factions of our upbringing, further repressed by our own feelings of guilt, and extended by the denial of the male genitalia.

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It begins with adults informing us with all manner of negative adjectives to describe or otherwise inform us on our genitals. At worst they're "dirty," at best they're "private." We shouldn't see males in underwear in papers or television ads, male frontal nudity in film is considered pornography. My gosh, a large percentage of the male population can't even take a piss unless their pricks are hidden by privacy panels. That's how strong an influence society in general has had on our attitudes and how we view what nature has provided.

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Before one can come to accept and embrace one's sexual nature - regardless of orientation - one must learn to accept and embrace what one has been born with. And, I think, therein lies the problem. The extremist, far-right factions of the world's societies (mostly men) have not accepted, and cannot accept, how the sexual self works and responds; they cannot embrace it. Therefore, they work to repress. They prefer that men deny the vast array of natural sexual response, and that women turn back the clock to subservience.

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Rather than denying and hiding it, accept what nature provided. Accept how it works and responds. Then you will be able to embrace what you've been given and enjoy it.

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Boner Help

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As blogger buddy Your French Patrick pointed out in a comment on Friday's post, there are remedies for the persistent limp pecker.

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Vacuum pumps are suggested and prescribed by urologists for those men whose cocks can no longer get hard. Whether the reason is chemical (medication), organic (mental or physical disability), or surgical (prostate removal), vacuum therapy can pump up your pud. I wouldn't suggest, nor recommend, the types found in adult toy stores. Preferably, go to your local pharmacy - or shop online. These use suction to suck blood into the cock, then slip a cock ring onto the base of the shaft to keep the blood from escaping. (Check out the Revive Vacuum System (as advertised in AARP.)

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The drawback? As with any cock ring that only encircles the shaft, you can only use these for an absolute maximum of 30 minutes at a time. Any longer and you risk long-term damage to your dick. And you must wait at least 60 minutes before putting it all back into use.

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The other typical remedy is the implant. You've got rigid and semi-rigid types - these are solid and you've got a permanent boner. More and more men are opting for the the inflatable type. Two silicone balloons are implanted into the shaft of the cock, a reservoir of saline is placed in the lower abdomen, and a small (squeeze-type) pump is placed in the scrotum. You raise your rod by pumping the saline solution into the balloons. It can keep your prick pumped up as long as you wish (a perpetual hard-on is possible).
Check out this video at VideoMD to see how it works.

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The drawback? Price! The surgery is expensive and it's very doubtful any insurance will pick up the tab. The other downside that I could see: Your cock will expand in girth but the length is always the same. You'll end up with a shower, not a grower. But, at least it goes from limp to stiff.

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The bottom line here, guys, is that just because you don't get a natural boner, doesn't mean you can't get one at all. Rather than giving up on enjoying your cock, look into some of these remedies.

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