Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Psychology of Size

Does size matter? Of course it does.
But the more interesting question is, why?
Why do we care so much about being hung; the bigger, the better?
Size is important to most people of all sexual orientations; gay, straight, and bisexuals. And it's important to both men and women. But, it is not rooted in aesthetics, as we might believe - that it's strictly that a bigger cock is nicer to look at. It can be traced all the way back to the beginnings of man...it is embedded in us, really, on a subconscious level; buried deep within the human psyche.
The larger (longer) a man's cock, the deeper he could penetrate the vaginal canal at the time of ejaculation, thereby getting his sperm closer to the target and increasing the chances of procreation. The spreading of his genetic pool was of the utmost importance. It became a sign of fertility, and, therefore, virility. Two important links in the chain of human reproduction.
We're also quite impressed by the force with which we ejaculate. Of course, the harder we cum, the further we shoot, the better it feels.
But that also weighs on attraction, deep with in our subconscious, because it means the semen can be rocketed into the vaginal canal more forcefully, instantly attaining a lead over any competition. 

Why do we find those big heavy-looking, swaying testicles so mesmerizing? What draws us to them?

Large, heavy-appearing balls (it was thought) meant more semen, more sperm, and a better chance to become pregnant.
Smaller (it was thought) couldn't produce enough to get the job done due to low volume
That said, we shouldn't care about size if we're simply interested in sex as a means of entertainment and pleasure - because for that, size doesn't matter at all. We can have just as much fun with a small cock
as we can with a large one
the sensations are the same
and they'll reach ejaculation no matter how big or small it is.
The recent Tantric Massage group session I attended was proof of that. One guy would be lucky to measure his boner above 3" - but he enjoyed it no less than the rest of us.


Xersex said...

in my opinion, for male gay people, it matters only if you want to be fucked and/or if you want to fuck giving sure pleasure to a lover. Otherwise it doesn't matter so much!

A French Patrick said...

It is true that if we can see it without arming oneself with a magnifying glass, it is at least a saving of time.

I wish you a wondrous day, my darling, with so many long, large, thick bisous that you will see or at least and above all feel them with no problem.


All very interesting! With great illustrations! I guess I have about an average size penis. But I've never had any complaints. I even been given the occasional compliment! But my balls are rather large and do hang low! Hugs dear friend and many thanks, Patrick

whkattk said...

@ Xersex - Even so, the prostate is not that deep - even a small penis should be able to reach it.

mistress maddie said...

I don't know what it is either, but I will admit to liking the bigger side of things. Except when anal comes in, then I top. But there is just something sexy to me watching a big cock swing, or rest on my partners thighs. Or sucking it. I myself am not hung, but above average, and like that fact I can handle it myself for pleasure too. Not to mention show it off in jeans.

Jean WM said...

There's probably a lot to discuss on this. I.e. If size was that important to procreation, only the longest would have survived the natural selection process. I wonder if this whole size issue is really something very recent. Go back a 100 years and it was probably a non issue.

AOM said...

Great article, bro. Size has never mattered much to me, though I do find smaller cocks easier to work. They all feel good and are fun to play with - the most important thing to me is the pleasure they give and giving pleasure is the most pleasurable things to me. Wishing you a jizztastic day! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

Fullmoonma said...

1. So what's your theory about Asian cock size? From what I have read and experienced in giving erotic massages, Asian cocks are about 1"smaller than Caucasian or African cocks - yet Asians have been very successful in out procreating the rest of us!

2. I'm convinced that it's no accident that cocks fit so nicely into butts, that it feels good to be penetrated, that there is a feeling of bonding with someone who fucks you, but that this is a case where average usually feels better than huge.

3. When I showed off my 85th percentile cock to my straight buddies after puberty, they put me down. Later, gay guys were enthusiastic to discover it, and still are! And I certainly appreciate and remember the very large cocks I get to massage occasionally, as long as they are attached to nice guys!

Fullmoonma said...

4. I'm not sure I buy the argument that nature selects for big cocks because they are better as impregnation. All the penis size graphs I've seen (and I've seen a lot!) show a bell shaped curve - most American cocks are in the 5" to 7" mid-range. I'd argue that's the size that nature selects for. Our fascination with big cocks must have some other explanation! Is it just typical male competitive spirit?

SickoRicko said...

I read somewhere - perhaps here - that length doesn't really matter to women because the pleasure sensations for her are just inside the vagina, anything past that is wasted.

Anonymous said...

The difference between black and Asian penes, at least the means, is .44 mm, with whites in-between.

Me personally, I don't like anal, have never done anal, and my anus clenches when I'm hard, so bottoming is anatomically impossible. But some of the sizes claimed by porn stars would hit the sigmoid on an average man.

Fit Studs said...

I really dislike (with passion): guys with big tools who think they're destroyers & anyone & everyone would want 'em. Nobody's here for that, loser. Big is disgusting IMO.

The smaller, the better. And more secure there's only pleasure with little to no pain.

Anonymous said...

That's fine. I'm big, and like I said, the only penetration I do involves vaginas and mouths, largely because of my size. But I like frotting and jerking with other guys. On the plus side, my size has introduced me to more than a few JO and frot buds, usually guys who just haven't seen one that big in person and want to see me in action.