What an incredible response to yesterday's post. Comments and emails - all supporting the reader. And, evidently, some of you have experienced this situation; the married friend (or hook-up). It's very interesting to note that many of the married guys in the Jack Off Group I belonged to would cite the fact that their wives weren't very adept at cock play; that men inherently know what to do (which is true) with a cock.
A lot of the trouble in marriage sex: We send non-verbal signals; we raise our hips, we moan, we sigh. But we don't take a spouse's hand and inform it of what we want at the moment, and we won't say it out loud.
When you hook up with a buddy, do you tell him what feels good, what you want him to do?
Does he tell you?