What a weird weather pattern. One day of sun and warmth yesterday.
Today we're back to cloudy and cold.
As Faithful Reader Jean has said: This too shall pass.
Soon, I hope.
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"Settle a dispute for us. We're split 2:2. There's 5 of us sharing a huge house each has a bedroom and bathroom. Since the virus hit 4 of us enjoy jerking off together and the other guy has never joined in and actually claims he doesn't at all. But then one of us found a picture of him at healthy friction in Palm Springs. Why would he lie and should we confront him? 2 say yes and 2 say no. You get the diciding vote."
The old saying that "90% of men admit they masturbate, the other 10% are lying" must have some basis in fact. As your one roomie proves, I guess. What reason would he have for not joining in with you but attending Healthy Friction, I can't really guess.
As for confronting him with the evidence? Let me ask this: What do you or anyone else gain by doing so?You'll embarrass him, and you risk making him angry enough to move out. If that's your goal, then have at it.
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I agree with you.
If he doesn't wanna join, well, it's his prerogative. No?
XOXO
I think that sharing a house is like sharing a neighborhood, a friendly one for that matter. If some of the neighbors are friends enough to practice whatever activity together but one of them decline the invitation, then his reasons and privacy should be acknowledged out of simple respect. No matter if the others find out he is having the same activity elsewhere with other people, he is entitled do doing so and should not justify himself about it, he still can be a nice chap to live with/nearby. As to confronting him, you are right: that would be the shortest way to loosing his friendship out of an intruding and useless curiosity.
Yes, let it be...
Don't get into his private life and respect his choice.
If 4 of you are enjoying masturbating together, what do you have to complain if ONE of you 5 aren't into it.
He might have his own reasons.
Respect his choice and don't be rude to confront him.
Everyone isn't on the same page when it comes to what they want to do, where they want to do it and who they want to do it with. This goes for lots of things: sex, consuming alcohol, going out for pizza...you name it.
He might even have some serious hang-ups about who knows what.
I agree....let it be.
I agree with you. What's their intention, and why is it so important to them? Does he not fit in with the household in any other way?
My two cents concurs: Let It Be.
MYOB. I hope all these folks are getting vaccinations because it looks like it's time for them to get out more.
Out of five people I would be surprised if AT LEAST one wouldn't have different likes and dislikes, isn't that all part of being an adult?
hugs and bisous.
First off, why does it matter? It's shouldn't be any of their business why he does or doesn't want to be included. And second, why are they so consumed with his jerking off, if he does or doesn't? Sounds like they just want to see his cock and him jerking off.
"Why would he lie and should we confront him?" Get grip girls.
It is not as if the house had been a closed club, an establishment reserved for those who have adopted group masturbation. So there is nothing to reproach him with, or else things that have nothing to do with this practice.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
It doesn't really say if he makes them think he disaproves of them doing it. If he's fine with them doing it then it's really none of their business. But if he's making them feel bad about doing it then maybe they should talk about that. It also doesn't say wether he's gay,straight, or bi. Maybe he has a crush on one of the others and it embareses him.
so true! You're right!
If he doesn't want to share, that's fine, he doesn't have to.
An aside: A survey should be done at the end of this pandemic for how many guys jerked off together to relieve tension. More to normalize the circle jerk and stop acting like it's weird.
We can only echo everyone else.
Let. It. Be.
Absolutely keep what you know to yourself. He doesn't want to jerk off with you. He's told you so. Get over it. Jeesh. NO is an answer. Sorry. This goes to people not taking other people at their word when it comes to consent. And shame on you looking for dirt on him (or did you just 'accidentally' find that photo?) The writer of this letter is a dirt bag. NO means NO. Sorry... you pushed a button with this one.
Maybe he's comfortable jacking off with strangers but not able to reach that level of comfort yet with guys he knows. The 4 should extend an open invitation to him to join in if he ever changes his mind, and leave him be.
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