Monday, August 4, 2014

Your Reaction to (Cock) Size

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Last Monday's post got a whole lot of responses. One Anon reader has experienced dismissive attitudes because of his cock size. As a result, he will no longer get naked in front of other dudes. He asked a very good question.

"...Maybe I've just been unfortunate enough to have a string of bad experiences, but I notice that only about half of the responses above me actually address the size issue as opposed to merely the comfort issue. How do they themselves react to men of different sizes? I'd be interested to know."

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Please - help your fellow Faithful Reader out. Take the time to leave him a response... How do you react to men with a smaller than average cock? Do you give a quick glance and walk on by? How do you react to a guy who's truly hung?

25 comments:

O!Daddie now at http:odaddie.tumblr.com/ said...

I've had all shapes and sizes and can truly tell you that in my experience, it ain't what you got, it's how you use it. No size queen here - send me a man who knows how to make love !!

Your French Patrick said...
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Your French Patrick said...

1st, the average size is lower than what think a lot of people.
The relaxed (flaccid, non-tumescent) human penis has an average length of only 4 inches (10 cm) and a diameter of 1.25 inches (3.2 cm) (which would result in a circumference of roughly 3.9 inches (9.9 cm)) while fully erect ones have an average length of 6 inches (15 cm) and a diameter of 1.5 inches (3.8 cm), resulting in an erect circumference of 4.71 inches (12.0 cm).

2nd, it's an average and that implies that a lot are shorter and less thick.

3rd, that has no importance and we have to prefer that it works better and not that it is longer.

4th, we have to prefer that it is thicker and not that it is longer.

5th, those who have it longer or bigger have no right to be proud of it having made nothing for that. It is not the distinguishing feature of a caste or a social row, nor of intelligence or merits. Otherwise we would put cocks on the honorary medals.

6th, I am too talkative because all this has no importance.

7th, I wish you a wondrous day, whatever is the length of your cock.

8th, I send you a lot of bisous, whatever is the length of your cock.

9th, amen.

Xersex said...

Daddie is so right!

mistress maddie said...

I too don't care if you have a small cock, or a hung cock, I just want the owner to be able to please me. I also look at every cock I see at a gym or pool. O love cock of any size.

LORD PATRICK said...

Really never reacted to size! It was the really "BIG" ones that frightened me sometimes! I'm only average myself and never had any problems!

Anonymous said...

Size really does not matter. I have had very sexually satisfying experiences with guys small and big and disappointing ones with guys big and small.

I have never commented on the size of a guy's penis to his face. When I am somewhere where there is group nudity, I generally keep my thoughts to myself regarding others' appearance. I want everyone to feel comfortable, otherwise the mood gets ruined.

You have what you are born with, so learn how to use it well.

Anonymous said...

I'm average... never had a problem, even had one bf say it was "party size", so maybe I was doing something right.

Overly large ones generally don't really turn me on. The fun ones are in many sizes.

Baldy

Anonymous said...

As others have written here, it's what you can do with your cock not the size. It's the fun in the person that makes a cock enjoyable. I've had a 5" guy give me more pleasure than another guy with a 9" cock.
That's why I usually enjoy bath houses more then hook-up sites. There are all kinds and sizes to explore...and it is definitely more dependent on the fun in the guys and not their cock size.
If they are not interested, then it is their loss...
I'm only packing 6" ...

Anonymous said...

In picture #3.... any of these fellows looks like a really good time.

Baldy

Don Ricker said...

There are also growers and showers; so a grower will be smaller, than a shower, while flaccid. It is more appropriate to measure cock, when all are hard.

Anonymous said...

sigh - too much pc here...

yes - size does matter... if it is large (either obvious by showing or interesting by growing) i will take a second look and maybe comment... if it is average (or *gasp* small) i will definitely take less notice and sometimes even walk-on-by... same with height (stature) - i notice (and comment) to tall folks and ignore average/short folks...

that (my passing-by or ignoring) does not mean that i wont eventually end up chatting or sexing or whatever - with average (or below) fellas... it just means that i DO notice... i accept that i am biased towards hung a/o tall guys - because i am a product of my society (as are others)...

in particular, the CONFIDENCE displayed by that person is usually similarly biased... if the person displays confidence in whatever he is packing or stands-tall, then i will definitely not walk on by... and, tho i am average (even small when flaccid) and have experienced that pass-on-by effect - i dont let it diminish my confidence in myself... altho it does help that i am average to above in height...

society sucks when you/anyone is below-ideal, but carrying your own confidence is always going to sway-the-outcome... and yes, i/you/anyone can pretend to swagger and have confidence even if we dont - and it WILL help...

gl and peace, h.

Prospero said...

I am a top, so my partner's size doesn't always matter, though I do like giving head, so both a tiny dick and a gigantic dick are no fun. 6 - 7 is good for me.

Anonymous said...

I'm lucky enough to be a grower, going from deceptively small to substantial. I've always been aware of this and consider commentary regarding small flaccid size to be infantile. As concerns others: any winkie or average dick is good. The large to enormous ones are pretty impressive, then I head for the hills. Large ones can look like caricatures and can be disproportionate. Rather a smaller one for me thank you

Anonymous said...

I'm lucky enough to be a grower, going from deceptively small to substantial. I've always been aware of this and consider commentary regarding small flaccid size to be infantile. As concerns others: any winkie or average dick is good. The large to enormous ones are pretty impressive, then I head for the hills. Large ones can look like caricatures and can be disproportionate. Rather a smaller one for me thank you

Anonymous said...

I'm lucky enough to be a grower, going from deceptively small to substantial. I've always been aware of this and consider commentary regarding small flaccid size to be infantile. As concerns others: any winkie or average dick is good. The large to enormous ones are pretty impressive, then I head for the hills. Large ones can look like caricatures and can be disproportionate. Rather a smaller one for me thank you

Fullmoonma said...

1. Large cocks feel very good in the hand. I get frequent comments on my 85th percentile cock from guys who hold it.

2. Small to medium diameter cocks feel best when inserted in my body orifices. Cocks that are too long cause pain!

3. I love looking at hard cocks of all sizes.

4. Usually porn actors with average cocks are really really hot.


Anonymous said...

The dick is interesting, but I'd pay more attention to the rest of the person. To me, large is generally not attractive, because their possessors are often too self-assured and can verge on intimidating. You've got a big dick - so what? If the rest of the man is attractive, a micro dick would be a bit off-putting as they can be a bit of a challenge to work with.

Anonymous said...

This is one of those conversations that starts early and goes on forever. I remember being in the restroom with two little kids, maybe 5 and one commented to the other how his was bigger. It starts early, but in reality shouldn't define us. We're all different and that's what makes us unique and special. I've been with men who were 3" fully erect and some closer to 8". Honestly the 3" guy was so much sexier because he had such confidence in himself vs the other guy who relied on his size to get him through. Be yourself and be proud of what you have.

Anonymous said...

As an overly sized large man, I would have to say it gets a lot of attention but VERY few can handle it. For myself, I prefer a smaller size.

Queer Heaven said...

Ok, as intelligent men we all know that size does not really matter ..it is how it is used that counts.
But I venture to say that if any of your readers were faced with a situation where there were two equally good looking guys standing naked in front of them and each was willing to sex with them.... they would most likely choose the one with the large Dick.

that one guy said...

Sorry, I only saw this today --- hope it isn't too late to add my opinion.

Large cocks are fun to look at and can be fun to play with, BUT they can also be difficult to work with, too. My cock is not enormous, but it is fairly thick, and my husband has trouble getting the whole thing in his mouth. I can get his whole cock in my mouth, and so he gets more fun out of blow jobs than I do :-\

Also, a guy with a really big dick can sometimes be what straight guys call a "pillow princess" (a girl who thinks all she needs to do is lie there and look pretty). If the guy thinks his job during sex is to just lie there and be worshipped, then that can be a big turn-off.

I remember reading a story by Lars Eighner where the main character said having a small cock was an advantage because guys who would be hesitant about getting fucked by a large dick were more willing to let him put his in their ass. So there's that.

And a real-life anecdote: the largest load of cum I ever saw came out of a cock the size of my thumb. There was a roomful of us playing with each other, 6 or 8 guys, and this one guy with a very tiny cock was playing with himself alone. So I thought I'd be nice and help him feel included. I sucked him for about 20 seconds, and when he came he shot on top of my head... over my head onto my back ... and when I turned my face away, he shot me in the ear. I was a mess; it was amazing.

Lastly, to "how do you react" question: I will look at anybody's cock, because cocks are fun to look at no matter the size; but I am more likely to be interested in a guy if he shows interest in me. The guy with the donkey-dick who exudes an aura of "too beautiful for you" is much less interesting than the guy with the small dick whose aura says "I want action."

whkattk said...

@ that one guy - It is never too late to join in on the conversation. I really appreciate you doing so and you've made many good points about dick size. Particularly the last one - I abhor the guys with big cocks who exude that attitude. I've had some ignore me because I'm not model material - then they get a look at my dick and suddenly they want it. Those are the dudes I push away.

Andrew Hunter said...

I would have to agree being a man on just below the average number. I love to look at big cocks - they fascinate me - to really get to the point here - for me this started when I was about 9 and my mother saw me naked. Meaning well she grabbed me by the arm out of the bathroom - drug me down the steps and had me show my penis to my father asking him if I was too small - was there something wrong that I was not bigger than this by now. Anybody reading this is either relating or dying for me. My father took it in stride and said no that I was fine and she could stop worrying. Sadly - that one event has occupied my mind and thoughts about penis size for far too many years. I was petrified to show my penis to any woman because I was afraid - like my mother - she would find it too small. This of course would launch into another discourse for another time, place, and blog - but I now still love to look but am quite happy with who I am

Roger Smith said...

Well with me, I am never a size queen. I like cocks period. The largest one I ever laid eyes on was at least 12-13 inches. And the biggest I ever had in me(since I am a bottom) was 7 inches. With me I am more attracted to guys who have small or average sizes cocks. I am a average size guy. But I never get laughed at or complain too. I was turned down by a body builder once....but that was during a time when I was just chatting on a website. I think I would rather take an average size man or smaller to fall in love with....than with a larger cock, egotistical muscleheaded man anyday. I think it is good to have variety....but not good to compare yourself to others. And besides who is that say that person isn't covering their own insecurities too in some way.