Thursday, July 30, 2015

Absolutely Normal Reaction

It would appear each time I use a few photos which include women I lose a follower or two. Now, I realize that the majority of my readers are gay, but a goodly amount of straight dudes also read regularly. And, as one stated in a comment not all that long ago, "Throw us a 'bone' once in a while." So, I do. Big Whack Attack is all about informing folks about cock, and encouraging openness, honesty, and pride. We want our straight brothers along for the ride, don't we?
Well, anyway... Going back to the lockers and showers. Women are much, much more modest in these situations than men, but bear in mind society has been judging women for decades - and no one is harder on women than other women.
Guys, on the other hand, are not so self-conscious about their bodies - just their packages. We fear our cocks will be judged - perhaps laughed at. Personally, the only thing I've experienced is long, questioning looks (sometimes blunt stares). And occasionally a guy would dare to ask, "Dude, what happened to your balls?" "Well," I answered, "they're there. Just very small. See?" I'd say and lift my cock out of the way. "Mumps and Scarlet Fever fried them when I was a kid - they never grew."
Military guys can be forward like that. To be honest, I found it rather refreshing to be asked instead of just noticing guys taking repeated sly (they thought, anyway) ganders at my crotch. I mean, come on, men, you're obviously curious, so ask! But, I do have to admit that there is something about water sluicing down the length of the cock that starts a bit of burgeoning. 

Lifting it up to wet everything down properly maybe increases the hardness.
We soap it up

and perhaps it blossoms into a full boner.

But, this, too, guys is perfectly natural, and should be nothing to be concerned about. It happens. So what? It's no reason to wear briefs into the showers. I mean, good lord, how do you get clean that way?
Other guys showering, or within view from the lockers,

should know enough to recognize that semi-hard-on or burgeoning boner for what it is: 



A typical and absolutely normal physiological reaction


A French Patrick said...

You will never lose my visits just because we can be afraid of seeing women who have no reason for appearing there, but it is because we developed bonds of friendship which allow me to overcome the obstacle.
I have myself a lot of straight men and women who are just curious or sexually aroused by what is the gay life, and also many of bisexuals but if you see a woman if only once it is that I would have gone mad or that my blog will have been pirated.
It is self-evident at first sight that my blog is a gay blog, and it proudly claims that it is a gay blog.
If they follow me it is not in spite of but because it is a gay blog.
And of course that does not prevent them from finding somewhere else what they want of different and which abound everywhere.
When you want to buy some meat, you do not go to your laundry, right?

If you wonder if you'll install Windows 10, read my comment on AOM's update of today.

I wish you a wondrous day, my dear friend, with a lot of bisous.


You won't lose me for showing women! Why should anyone object! We post what WE think appropriate! Great set as ever. Have a good day! Hugs, patrick

SickoRicko said...

Seeing women doesn't bother me; I see them at the naked beach all the time.

Jean said...

You won't lose me either showing women. But I am very happy to see all the guys. I'm surprised you don't get more comments and followers by females. Maybe too shy; I know I was for over a year!!

Hope you get some stats for visitors. I'll claim my Win 10 in another week to let the dust settle.

A French Patrick said...
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A French Patrick said...

@ Jean
You are obviously quite free to wait but if you have updated from Windows 8 to windows 8.1 and if you are up to date of quite its updates, it's useless to wait,do not hesitate. The speed of execution is very appreciably increased.
Windows has learnt from the experience of its previous excesses of haste causing it to lose sales, and this time these updates of Windows 8.1 have very well paved the way.
I have had problems with only two programs: Windows Live Mail and Adobe Reader, for which it missed a .dll file. The machine suggests to reinstall these programs. It does not work.
But, when you want to uninstall a program, you have two options: to uninstall and to repair, and thanks to this second option you'll have no more problem.
If you prefer a previous left bar, the one of Window 7 for instance, or another one, use ClassicShellSetup_4_2_1.exe which is free.
Best regards.

AOM said...

No problem showing images of women - they are beautiful too! Amen to being open and honest about our bodies. I think the thing that holds us back is that we somehow think no one else is thinking what we are thinking - in truth we are all thinking the same - we all have the same - it is all natural and normal - so open up and be free. We are humans. I wish you a wonderful weekend, brother. Hugs and Strokes, AOM

Fullmoonma said...

Showing women appreciating cock is part of your core message - and while I don't linger at these photos, I do appreciate what you're doing - I wouldn't want it any other way.

I wonder how often other men notice that I have a mild hypospadias style of cock - along with somewhat less than 1% of other men. The signs are pretty obvious - hooded foreskin, curved shaft, extra pee hole. In massaging upwards of 1000 men over the last 25 years, I've only encountered it twice, and once was a show and tell session with another HS guy I met through the Hypospadias Yahoo group. (The other was in a Body Electric workshop where I was one of 2 HS guys demonstrating cock massage strokes to the participants - that was a trip!) Many guys with HS are very sensitive about showing them, even having them, and that was an issue with me when I was a teenager after I got teased when I showed by hardon to my buddies at age 14 or so. However, I enjoyed the group showers and naked swimming in high school - too bad those days have pretty much vanished! The only guys who have commented on my HS condition were a couple of med school students that I massaged over the years - they were curious to actually see the condition and made flattering comments!

whkattk said...

@ Fullmoonma - HS is something I've wished to cover - and haven't. I have a great-nephew who was born with HS, corrected via surgery while still a baby. I haven't been able to get him to open up about it - he's still much too shy to talk about his boners. Though his mother, my niece, has indicated his cock is small and curved... I know the curvature is a result of the HS surgery, but I wonder can size be affected as well?

whkattk said...

@ MFP - I shall go see your comment on Phil's blog... I am one of those who hesitates to update the OS simply because Microsoft needs to bolster their coffers. Still currently using 7, yet the launch icon for 10 sits on my toolbar waiting, waiting, waiting.

Anonymous said...

French Patrick made some mention, but I'm a bit surprised that the blog author is so binary in his thinking. This site is ideal for bisexuals, as well as other "not so straight" guys, whatever that means. To speak of everyone as either gay or straight in this day and age is a tad bit offensive. Give us bi-guys some love. We really do exist. I love seeing guys and girls. I like studying pussies and cocks as well. My favorite porn is MwM when the guys get it on with the girl and each other.

A French Patrick said...

@ Anonymous
I repeat that I have a 100% gay blog, and nevertheless thousands of followers who are not gay or not only gay. I have no problem with the bisexuality, and good friends among the bi-guys, the lesbians, the straight women, the heterosexuals, etc.
Don't be wrong, I love and respect all these categories and others.
I have only said that there are tons of blogs devoted to each of the categories, bisexuals included, and that when I want to buy some meat I don't go to a laundry.
If this blog is a bisexual blog, zero problem, but then it must assume it proudly, it has no need to wonder if photos of nudes females are welcome or not, no need to care if that make it lose followers or not.
Best regards.

Xersex said...

ahahaha I can tell I began with etero porns during my teenage! but - guess why - my attention was only for men! So, for sure, you don't lose me putting some women on your blog!

whkattk said...

@ Anon - Should you look backward through the archives you'll find plenty of mention of Bi guys and Straight-But-Curious, what might be called Not so straight - those men who are okay with mutual jacking-off with a buddy or two and lending one another a hand. These are the dudes who don't want anything to do with kissing or sucking cock, or fucking; - though, in my experience Frot is considered okay.

I TRY to post photos of what pertains to the message at hand. Sometimes that includes pictures of women, sometimes trios of MFM, or FMF... As you say, MFP, I cannot concern myself with those who leave because of it.

Anonymous said...

It would be nice if tolerance worked both ways.....or maybe I should say in many different ways.