Remember the guy who wrote in because his wife had gone "bat shit crazy" over her sons jacking off with a few buddies? Imagine my delight to find this email waiting for me this morning. It's fairly long, but worth the read.
"Seeing today's post reminded me I still owed you a response. But that dad - I feel his pain - though my two sons walked in on me at a much younger age. I thought I had them occupied watching Finding Nemo when they walked into the bedroom to find me spread eagle and pounding my pud. When they asked what I was doing, well I didn't know what what to say. They were both too young to understand masturbation so I just told them "Daddy's stones hurt and he's trying to make them feel better." They both said "Oh." The younger said, "We're hungry." The older said, "Yeah, can we have some cereal?" LOL.
Anyway, part of the reason it has taken so long is that I didn't want to tell you until it was all over. I didn't want to risk my ex finding out about the blog, or especially that I'd led both of the boys to it. I stopped the older one from leaving any more comments. I told him it jeopardized the blog. I mean what if someone noticed and they reported you. That would be awful!
This was quite a mess. My wife reported us to CPS. They showed up and tried to haul my son out of my place. He refused to go. He actually locked himself in the bathroom and threatened to run away. They left, but we got notice the next day he had to show up in family court because legally he should be with his mother.
I called my lawyer and we went. I thought we were in deep shit when it turned out to be a female judge. I even whispered to my lawyer that we needed to ask for a man. He told me to keep my mouth shut and let him handle it. When the judge asked my son why he wasn't where he belonged, he looked over at his mother and just blurted it out. "She caught me jacking off and threw me out." After the judge admonished him for the language, she decided a new custody hearing was in order and scheduled it for several weeks later. In the meantime he stayed where he was.
Oh, my ex was pissed! I didn't help things when I told the judge she had refused to allow me to see my younger son. I couldn't believe how cool this judge was. She pointed a finger at my ex and told her flat out she was breaking the terms of the agreement. And then added my younger one to the custody case. I though my ex's head was going to explode! I kind of wish it had.
I forgot what it was like to have a kid in the house all the time. We adjusted but it was a long five weeks. We sure had a lot of discussions based on your blog. I mean A LOT! I think he's read through more than half the posts already. And hearing my son say "cock" and "cum" took some getting used to. Guess it's tough sometimes to realize your kids are growing up.
Anyway, the judge decided my oldest was old enough to make the decision for himself. The psychologist on hand was a brilliant suggestion. So thanks for that! The younger stays with his mother. He's not very happy about it, but that's the way it is. My lawyer says we can file a petition in a year or so and that seemed to satisfy him. At least he;'s got something to look forward to.
In the meantime, neither one seems afraid to ask me anything. I've gotten to the point where I'm very comfortable talking to both of them about their bodies and sex. So maybe the whole mess was a good thing. Look for the silver lining, right?
Thank your readers for me for their support. Your blog is the best. I hope it's around for a long time. the only thing that I find disappointing is that more straight men don't comment. I mean, I get it that most of the pictures aren't exactly what gets them off, but the info here is amazing. I've learned more in one place here than from a dozen so-called straight internet sites. So believe me, I'll keep reading if you keep posting.Thanks again."
Well, even a partial win is worth celebrating. Keep your younger son in the loop and things should be fine.
Enjoy the weekend. Get naked and celebrate Masturbation Month.
Because things are about to come to a close on the month-long celebration, I shall schedule posts over the weekend.
I hope you enjoy them.