There are other things young guys can do to learn how to make things last. Of course it would be so much easier if fathers would take some initiative, but we all know how rare that is. Being too young to purchase anything like a FleshJack, we're kind of S.O.L. in the toy department that would help us learn control.
And what are the chances of dad sharing his?
But, standing next to a stool, or counter that is at the correct height and thrusting through a closed fist enables a guy to mimic penetrative sex.
Taking care not to squeeze the butt on every forward thrust slows things down.
As one urologist-sex therapist put it a number of years ago: "Straight men are discovering what gay men have known for years: The Prostate is the Male G-Spot." And for good reason. Stimulation of the prostate increases the rush to ejaculation.
Whether it's a finger or a toy of some kind it adds to the pleasure
and that could explain why straight men are buying instruments for the job.
Yes, the geyser of cum is the ultimate goal - the more explosive the force, the better
But we should learn to enjoy the time spent getting there at an earlier age.
Enjoy the getting there this weekend.