Friday, May 13, 2016

Our Rush to Ejaculation

There are other things young guys can do to learn how to make things last. Of course it would be so much easier if fathers would take some initiative, but we all know how rare that is. Being too young to purchase anything like a FleshJack, we're kind of S.O.L. in the toy department that would help us learn control.

And what are the chances of dad sharing his?
But, standing next to a stool, or counter that is at the correct height and thrusting through a closed fist enables a guy to mimic penetrative sex.

Taking care not to squeeze the butt on every forward thrust slows things down.
As one urologist-sex therapist put it a number of years ago: "Straight men are discovering what gay men have known for years: The Prostate is the Male G-Spot." And for good reason. Stimulation of the prostate increases the rush to ejaculation.



Whether it's a finger or a toy of some kind it adds to the pleasure
and that could explain why straight men are buying instruments for the job.
Yes, the geyser of cum is the ultimate goal - the more explosive the force, the better

But we should learn to enjoy the time spent getting there at an earlier age.
Enjoy the getting there this weekend.


A French Patrick said...

@ Jean WM,
"As with everything when you are young, orgasms are cheaper by the dozen."
I DO love your matchless know-how to express a maximum of things with a minimum of words concentrated in a shock phrase.
Just a detail, no orgasm there, but you are 100% right if you replace "orgasms" by "ejaculation".
I am very lucky, I have had two orgasms in my whole life, while I have had countless ejaculations, and so great that an ejaculation can be it can not compete with an orgasm.
I wish you a wondrous bisous whith lots and lots of bisous, of which one to cut in half for sharing it whith our very dear Pat.

SickoRicko said...

Great post!


Enjoy your weekend! Thanks for your visits and comments! Great advice and images once more!

mistress maddie said...

Your sure are right about the prostate. I like to top more ,but when the mood strikes I do like to bottom too. Not to be too tmi, but I generally am a shooter anyway, but stick a cock up my ass and it's even worst. The force it comes out at is amazing. Needless to say, the Lad loved to watch this, even though he doesn't make the best top. of course when by myself I love to take my time and just stroke and edge my length to a can't take it anymore. Have a great weekend my friend.

Anonymous said...

Personally I can't do the whole prostate thing. My anus clenches tight when I get an erection.

But the frenulum is pretty good.

Jean WM said...

All stuff most women don't know. Pat has written it, so it is communication, because now I know. Remember the letters people wrote to each other 100 years ago? They said more in their letters, tied them up and saved them.

Xersex said...

I'll try to enjoy my final rush!!!!
happy weekend!!!

Mark Greene said...

excellent post ! Yes there are various ways to masturbate. I always keep it interesting to break the monotony .


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A French Patrick said...

@ Jean:
Post script, Part 01/02:
Nearly none of the men and only a handful of the women had experienced anything besides a simple orgasm.
People have at times argued that some sources of sexual stimulation are better than others, from Freud’s attack on clitoral orgasms as “immature” to modern feminist attacks on vaginal orgasms as symbols of female subjugation. My own view is that the location of the stimulus is irrelevant as long as it feels good, and that politicizing body parts or telling people that one kind of sex is “better” or more “mature” or more “liberated” than another is pretty silly.
Orgasms and ejaculation are not the same thing, and we can have one or the other or both of them.
Orgasms happen in the brain, ejaculation happens in the prostate and urethra, and they are two different things that usually (but not always) happen nearly together. In reality, it isn’t that simple because orgasms also involve the PNS (Peripheral Nervous System, the part of the nervous system that consists of the nerves and ganglia outside of the brain and spinal cord) and involuntary contractions of the anal sphincters and other muscles, in the groin and elsewhere, but the simple version captures the main idea. In brains scans, an orgasm looks remarkably like an epileptic fit, an electrical storm that sweeps over the brain. (to be continued)

A French Patrick said...

@ Jean:
Post script, Part 02/02:
(Continuing & ending) It actually begins at “the point of no return,” followed one to three seconds later by the onset of ejaculation. The key point is that you can have either one without the other. Men who have experienced anorgasmic ejaculation (without sexual arousal or orgasm) say it’s not at all pleasurable. Men who experience orgasm without ejaculation are divided. Some (mostly younger ones) say that a non-ejaculatory orgasm is somewhat less pleasurable or intense. Others (mostly older men) say they’re equally enjoyable. Still, it’s pretty clear that most of the pleasure comes from the orgasm itself. The other important point is that there is no loss of erection if you have an orgasm but don’t ejaculate. It’s the ejaculation, not the orgasm, that dumps the hormones into your bloodstream that cause detumescence. So being able to orgasm without ejaculation increases a man’s stamina and allows him to have many more orgasms.
Kinds of orgasms:
Simple orgasm: A single “peak,” typically including 5-10 pelvic spasms in twenty seconds or less; generally perceived as being located in the genital area.
Dry orgasm: A male orgasm (of any of these types) without ejaculation; dry orgasms can happen naturally, but are often the result of a man deliberately avoiding ejaculation.
Foreshock: A less-intense orgasm, often one of a series, experienced as part of the build-up to a stronger orgasm, especially when practicing extended arousal and delayed orgasm; in men, foreshocks are dry orgasms, and are usually the result of intentionally blocking ejaculation.
Aftershock: A less-intense orgasm experienced after a major orgasm, often part of a diminishing series separated by no more than 30 seconds; in men, these are often natural dry orgasms after ejaculation and may occur in spite of the partial softening of the erection.
Multiple orgasms: Two or more orgasms in a row, with definite intervals between them; each interval is usually at least 30 seconds and often several minutes, and the level of arousal dips between orgasms, but without ever dropping below the level of “moderately aroused.”
Extended orgasm: Like a string of simple orgasms with very brief intervals between them and no drop in level of arousal; once started, these can just keep going … and going … and going!
Pelvic (or two-chakra) orgasm: An orgasm of any of the above types that is more powerful than normal and feels like it is coming from a wider area, including (at least) the whole pelvic area.
Three- or four-chakra orgasm: Like a pelvic orgasm, but perceived as even more powerful and as coming from an area extending from the genitals to the abdomen (three chakra) or the chest (four chakra).
Full-body orgasm: Like a pelvic orgasm, but perceived as still more powerful and as involving the whole body, or at least the whole torso and head.
Multi-chakra orgasm: Any of the previous three types; any powerful orgasm that seems to originate from an area that includes more than just the genitals.
Blended orgasm: Any orgasm that results from stimulation of more than one type or more than one region.

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whkattk said...

@ Anon - the Frenulum is super sensitive. Do whatever brings more pleasure to your jack off sessions.

whkattk said...

@ Jean - There's a website - I think it's called "Letters of Note" - that posts some really great ones which have been discovered. Always interesting to see the private thoughts and information they've shared with trusted friends.

Anonymous said...

I laughed because I remember my dad's only advice was to use the sock lol

whkattk said...

@ Anon - Dad was just trying to save you the effort of cleaning up all the cum. Hand towels will work just as well.