Hmmm.
"I'm a closeted bi guy. I've had fantasies for years about guys. My wife recently asked if I'd be interested or willing to have a threesome with another dude. I'm interested and willing and scared shitless. I'm afraid she's going to be pissed to high heaven if I get really into any guy who she brings home. I mean I know I'm going to want to grab that dick, suck that dick and lick them balls. What do you think?"
I'd say you need to have a few more discussions before anything happens. But, if you ultimately decide to move forward with this, you have a right to enjoy it as much as she does.
I'd suggest you spend equal time, though. You can't spend the entire time grabbing cock and not seeing that she's getting the attention she deserves. In other words, don't be greedy. Share yourself with her, share him.
You both have to acknowledge that this is simply a form of entertainment; it has nothing to do with your feelings for one another. A lot of guys are willing to try this kind of thing - yes, even with the third being a man - and then end up getting jealous when his spouse/girlfriend/partner appears to be enjoying the other guy.
If you aren't ready to actually see her in action with someone else, I'd say you best keep your interest in men under wraps or on the DL.
Added with an afterthought edit:
Insist on condoms
Any other suggestions, readers?
Insist on condoms
8 comments:
I envy his wife!!!
Hope all is well with you today, bro. I think you gave the guy some good things to consider. Definitely need to make sure each person is equally attended to and definitely use condoms. I think the couple needs to be totally honest about it with each other and themselves before they venture into it. Have a fabulous weekend! Hugs, Licks, and Strokes
I shall say "Hummm", as you.
When we want too much to be convincing we sow doubt, and I prefer to reserve my grey cells for the study of a more plausible modern-day fairytale. No fiction deserves stress or a brainstorming session leading to a meningitis for giving advices which will not be followed.
Sorry if I am wrong.
Have a wondrous weekend, my darlings Jean and Pat
I'd say you summed it up very nicely. The only thing to add would be, I'd be worried if he really get into men more then women. Then he may be questioning bi or gay. But does it really matter? Just enjoy .
The first gif got to me in a very good way tonight...….
Condoms - YES!
Does the wife know that he is bi? If she doesnt know then she is in for one hell of a shock. Does the wife have any previous experience with bi guys/girls before? If both are a no this has a high chance of going pear shaped.
Physical aspects of it all aside; there is a huge mental hurdle that neither one may get over. The +1 has it easy. The husband and wife will have to deal with the aftermath of it.
I would say that a little more discussion on the subject is needed before moving forward. He needs to really understand what she wants with this adventure. He needs to be ready to see her really enjoying another man because this fantasy becoming reality will be hot to her.
He needs to make sure that she understands he is going to pleasure both her and him and not be a surprise to her. And it is only fair that she prepares herself to see him enjoying the other man as well because this is a fantasy becoming reality and it will be hot regardless.
Hope he reports back as to how it went.
Have a great week, Whkattk!
I'm late to this one, as I often am, but:
One point I don't think anybody has made is that the guy she invites may not be bi! --- or only a tiny bit. He may think --- and the wife may think --- that she's inviting him over to fuck her while her husband stays safely on the sidelines, playing with her tits or whatever. The wife may not be the only one who's surprised to be confronted with a slobbering cock monster.
I have zero experience in this area, but there is PLENTY of "MFM" porn where two men are working on the same woman but they basically never touch each other. There is also "MMF" porn where it's supposedly bisexual sex, but those scenes are often basically gay sex where the men are going at it hot & heavy while the woman sits on the couch next to them and masturbates.
The husband had better find out just what his wife has in mind so he doesn't show up to the wrong party. (Who knows, maybe she's like one of those women in the videos who likes being married to a cock lover...)
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