So Much in Common

We men and our cocks. Each of us has formed a particular infatuation with our own.

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Sometimes we obsess over them - particularly when they won't cooperate. We'll sit in abject dejection and ponder what to do.

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Yet, we are so loathe to talk about them face to face with another person.

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Sites like Frank Talk provide a service for us when we're too embarrassed to talk about boners and jizz with our friends and relatives.We'll get on the internet to ask questions anonymously, searching for answers that could most likely be given by a close friend. After all, he's got a penis. He knows how it's supposed to operate. He may even know what would cause it to malfunction, and offer a suggestion on what might help overcome the problem.

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Not that I'm dissing those forums; not at all. But, get with the program guys. The first step is admitting honestly, openly, that you have a cock,

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that it gets hard,

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that you enjoy it

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for more than taking a whizz.

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So, grab the opportunity this weekend to bolster your nerve. Broach the subject with a relative or buddy.

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He may let loose with an embarrassed laugh at first, but forge ahead.

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You both might be surprised to find you have an awful lot in common when it comes to that prized possession between your legs, and that you can learn much from one another.

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Have a terrific weekend!

Absolutely Normal Reaction

It would appear each time I use a few photos which include women I lose a follower or two. Now, I realize that the majority of my readers are gay, but a goodly amount of straight dudes also read regularly. And, as one stated in a comment not all that long ago, "Throw us a 'bone' once in a while." So, I do. Big Whack Attack is all about informing folks about cock, and encouraging openness, honesty, and pride. We want our straight brothers along for the ride, don't we?

Well, anyway... Going back to the lockers and showers. Women are much, much more modest in these situations than men, but bear in mind society has been judging women for decades - and no one is harder on women than other women.

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Guys, on the other hand, are not so self-conscious about their bodies - just their packages. We fear our cocks will be judged - perhaps laughed at. Personally, the only thing I've experienced is long, questioning looks (sometimes blunt stares). And occasionally a guy would dare to ask, "Dude, what happened to your balls?" "Well," I answered, "they're there. Just very small. See?" I'd say and lift my cock out of the way. "Mumps and Scarlet Fever fried them when I was a kid - they never grew."

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Military guys can be forward like that. To be honest, I found it rather refreshing to be asked instead of just noticing guys taking repeated sly (they thought, anyway) ganders at my crotch. I mean, come on, men, you're obviously curious, so ask! But, I do have to admit that there is something about water sluicing down the length of the cock that starts a bit of burgeoning. 

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Lifting it up to wet everything down properly maybe increases the hardness.

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We soap it up

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and perhaps it blossoms into a full boner.

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But, this, too, guys is perfectly natural, and should be nothing to be concerned about. It happens. So what? It's no reason to wear briefs into the showers. I mean, good lord, how do you get clean that way?

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Other guys showering, or within view from the lockers,

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should know enough to recognize that semi-hard-on or burgeoning boner for what it is: 

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A typical and absolutely normal physiological reaction

Hand It to Them

It's been a looooong time since I've been able to hand this out...and, as it turns out, the honor must be split. The Big Boner Hand Award is given to honor those who handle masturbation in an honest and open manner.

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First goes to the Huff Post Live of the Huffington Post. Host Caitlyn Becker interviewed Paul Rosenberg about BateWorld - the online "solosexual" site for men who enjoy jacking off - and his own organization, Rain City Jacks in Seattle, Washington. Rosenberg does a beautiful job in explaining what the site is all about and what it brings to the members. Thanks go to Bateworld's Tumblr Blog for bringing this one to our attention. You can read the report Jared Greenhouse did for Huffington Post and watch the clip here:

Solosexuals' Embrace Male Masturbation in Online Community

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The second goes to an episode of the CBS sitcom Mom which I caught in repeat last week. If you haven't seen this, Allison Janney (West Wing) plays a single mom to a daughter played by Anna Farris (Scary Movie 3) who is also a single mother. Janney's character is leaving for a date, "I thought you were going out, too." Nope, she's on the couch in sweats. "Oh, so you're staying home to masturbate." Then, as she's going out the door, "Keep it on your side of the bed."

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Such openness about this common activity is refreshing!

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So, they both deserve kudos and a great big (boner) hand.

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