Friday, February 12, 2016

Slow Down

"Slow down, you move too fast. You've got make the morning last." - Simon and Garfunkle
We often forget that. Especially men. The trend is getting to be overwhelming. It seems we're expected to accomplish twice as much in half the time. We rush to work, we rush through lunch (often working at our desks while we wolf down a dry sandwich), we work late and rush home. We give the spouse or partner a quick peck on the cheek, gobble down dinner, and get ready for bed. Maybe, maybe, there's a quick bit of sex play. Okay, okay; if they insist... 

As young men, we felt the need to hide our masturbation, so we rushed through it. We stroked furiously to cum as fast as possible so we wouldn't be discovered. That carried over into adulthood. We still have a tendency to pound away, our hands in some kind of death grip sliding up and down the shaft so quickly that the cockhead is barely engaged.

Stop that! Slow down. Savor it. It should be a pleasant pastime. Slow and varied is so much more delicious. I have a personal rule when it comes to jacking off: Never stroke faster than I would be able to thrust if I were fucking. Besides feeling really good, it's great practice.
Most women don't like fast "wham, bam, thank you ma'am" plunging; they get nothing from that.
Most men don't either; not really. Not until we're all close to orgasm. Because, somehow, nature spontaneously increases our rhythm. Then we do want it fast and hard. Maybe the faster and harder the better.


Your masturbation sessions should be the same. Slow, soft strokes that fully engage the entire cock, base to tip.

Stop to spread the pre-cum and run a finger around the ridge of the glans; 
flick a finger or thumb across the frenulum.
Leave the furious pounding for the moments just before you cum.

Have wonderful, slow, pleasurable weekend.


A French Patrick said...

I approve completely (strange, isn't it? lol), I am convinced of it for a long time. I must say that I lived during eighteen years in Madagascar where the heat makes the nap be almost compulsory. Madagascar is known as being the country of the "moramora" (= slowlyness in Malagasy) where everything goes well, slowly, in harmony and peacefully.I am not quite sure, but I believe that it is even in their national anthem
I whish you a wondrous weekend, my darling, especially as regard next Sunday, and I shall think of you and your wife on Valentin's day (yes, I say Valentin and not Valentine, it's voluntarily).
With a lot of bisous to you two, of course.


Have a great weekend yourself, especially Valentine's day! Hugs, Patrick

Jean WM said...

Slow down, good advice, Happy Valentines!

Fit Studs said...

Why slow down, when it feels so good...?! :)

Queer Heaven said...

Oh boy do I agree! A slow, slow jerk off is just the best. And for those of
you that have not tried it..(you Str8 guys also) with your butt will find it most pleasurable. And for a real "BANG" stick you finger all the way in and rub on your prostate.

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Xersex said...

happy weekend to you too!!!

SickoRicko said...

Thanks for the terrific instruction and fabulous GIFs!

whkattk said...

@ Fit Studs - why, to make the good feeling last, of course! :-)

Anonymous said...

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Anon (rough translation) - Beefcake is the ideal place to be capped K. straw while holding my cock blowjob , ejaculating together.