Wednesday, February 24, 2016

The Battle of the Bulge

A Faithful Reader sent an email, which I posted to the comments as Anonymous because I found it to be that interesting. He said (in part), "If I get a hard-on when I have clothes on, it simply points off to the right. If it needs adjustment, I can do that with a hand in the pocket without being too obvious."
In our young days, as we suffered the ravages of puberty, our cocks stood up in a second. We went to great lengths to hide that bulge. We tried to hide it with un-tucked shirts
(unsuccessfully for the most part)
behind books, or we'd sit at our desks and adjust not only for comfort but to avoid it being noticed.
As we age, it becomes more and more rare that those BOEs turn into full-on wood. Yet, it does happen, as I posted about my own snaking down a pant leg few weeks ago in the grocery store. I've long since given up trying to hide them. "Boners happen. There's nothing 'awkward' about them." - that's my thought process.


Is this still the prevailing attitude?
Or, have entertainers and sports figures made it acceptable to adjust the goods

So, this becomes today's questions, men.
Are you discreet about adjusting (boner or not)?


When you get an erection,
do you care if others notice it?



Jean WM said...

Honestly you don't even know you do it. I've seen family, friends and strangers adjusting and aren't aware they are. Or it's no big deal to all of them, and they are very efficient. The reverse is the case for the really little fellows in the family, etc., they can't seem to keep their hands off!!

mistress maddie said...

With both questions, it really depends what enivorn I'm in. I've been told I always show a outline though no matter how hard I try to work. In general, it doesn't bother me if its noticeable. On other guys, I find it extremely sexy if I see bugle, and a huge turn on at the same time. Turns me on even more so to see a bulge in pants or jean, then actually seeing the cock naked.

A French Patrick said...

I don't care, no problem as long as I know where to find it and that I can grasp it when I want...
Tomorrow it's the Saint Romeo. You know “Romeo & Juliet” by William Robert Shakespeare, obviously. In French we happen to say Romeo by meaning a lover. Be kind with your wife, if you please.
I wish you a wondrous day, my Love, with a lot of bisous.


Not many worries in that department any more! Thank you for your visits and comments. With Rick away, I'm getting ever fewer these days!

Cali-Boi said...

I've been meaning to comment dude and tell you how great your blog is. Now on this topic, I usually go commando and have absolutely no problem showing bulge or hard on. I'm a architectural landscapists, so I love to be comfortable. I even have one client who requests me to not wear anything under my shorts or jeans....thats another story. I too agree that seeing bulge's is a HUGE turn on.

Xersex said...

it never happens me to have a boe! so you don't have this problem!

whkattk said...

@ Jean - The young fellows of the family have not had "that's dirty, don't touch that" and "stop playing with yourself, it's not nice" pounded into their dear little heads. How wonderful! As they age, it will dawn on them to be more discreet, or efficient, as you put it.

I dare say you might be correct - I would bet that many times we men don't even realize we're doing it. We just know something isn't where it needs to be and we fix it.

whkattk said...

@ Cali-Boi - I think I'd like to hear that story!