Thursday, July 7, 2016

Enjoying Together

I've been asked more than once, over the 5+ years of writing this blog, how to get a buddy to engage in masturbating together. Well, it pretty much happens as I described an exceptional encounter yesterday: The best way is to let it happen (sort of) spontaneously.
Or, as happened with my first bunk mate in the military. I walked in my first night of the assignment, he was lying on his bunk flipping through a magazine and stroking his cock. He wasn't the least bit shy. He not only continued his self-ministrations, he told me it was his nightly routine; I could either go somewhere to pass the time or, he pointed me to his porn stash, join in.

About a week later, as we were kicked back on our bunks and enjoying ourselves, we both ceased trying to sneak glances. He laid there and watched me. I looked over to watch him.
He stood between our bunks. I stood to face him. He reached out and I let him wrap a hand around my cock. I reached out and wrapped mine around his.
It was two weeks later that he invited me to my first circle jerk. And, while group jack-off is a planned activity, it can be quite exhilarating to see so many guys stroking away on their boners.
But, if you want a current friend to become a jack-off bud, the best way is to introduce it in a non-threatening manner such as talking about sex, or surfing and watching,
or reading porn,
Or, let him walk in on you

invite him to join in, and let the natural physiological response lead the way.

In other words, you can't be ashamed of your cock getting hard,
you can't be ashamed of groping it,
you can't be ashamed of dropping trou.
And enjoying yourselves together


French Patrick said...

No problem when we are on the same wavelength and when all partners have a high level of mutual trust and a good co-operative spirit. Then we can get along well, otherwise, we can fantasize, but often not much more.
Who did not experience it?
I wish you a wondrous day, mon chéri, as well as our lovedest Jean, with lota of affectionate bisous.


Great advice! Wonderful images! Will have a look at Paul's! Thanks!

Jean WM said...

I wonder what would have happened if you never were in the military. Do you think you still would have found your way to a jack-off buddy?
What a fast week with a Monday Holiday! Hot here! Temp Saturday 98/36 with high humidity. Hugs and bisous!

Xersex said...

love your description and the pics!

SickoRicko said...

I sometimes wish that this sort of thing had happened in my life.

whkattk said...

@ Jean - You know, that's a very good question. Based on the enjoyment of jacking with my brother and our buddies, it was something I wouldn't have turned down no matter when it had come about. But, I don't know that I would have actively searched out a group.

Imagination said...

Your posts - texts and photos - raise demand again and again to belong to the community of like-minded people, mentally and physically. The spiritual solidarity is simple. But it's very difficult to find close friends who meet with their naked bodies and share intimacy free and self-evident.
You succeed every time with your contributions to create wonderful feelings of sexual inspiration, physical well-being and stimulating familiarity. THANKS!

Anonymous said...

when my dad gave me my first nude magazine I wish I had invited him to join me into the reading of it

whkattk said...

@ Anon - You are definitely among the minority. No, not in not inviting your father to join you in the reading of the magazine, but the fact that your father gave it to you in the first place. To have a father so open about sex is a gift!