Monday, January 2, 2017

Start With the Self

Blogger buddy over at How to Bate - a journal of his masturbation - brought to mind that one of the best, and most important, lessons for men is to know, understand, and love our cocks. 
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From the tip of the head
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to the very root of the shaft.
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Learning how we respond to different stimuli, fully understanding the signals of arousal, knowing the difference between a temporary misbehavior and a serious issue. Those are important not only in assisting us in being better partners, but staying healthy.
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There are many different resources available to help men do just that. There are books and videos, and in-person instructors. Of all the video and in-person resources, Body Electric is one of the best. They have weekend seminars and week-long retreats for men
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women
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and couples
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Give yourself to yourself. Whether you use books and videos to study in privacy at home, or sign up for a weekend or week-long retreat there's so much you can learn. There is so much you can give. But you must start with the self.  
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8 comments:

Patrick said...

AH! Man! You are "One of A Kind"! What would we do without you! Trust 2017 unfolds well for you!

mistress maddie said...

I sure hope you had a lovely New Years Eve. Great post and how very true. My one friend that was here nye, stayed the night. And after we retired he did things to me, then sent my eyes to the back of my head!!!!! Just what a I need...another vice.

SickoRicko said...

Great pix and great advice as usual!

Fluffy said...

This is exactly what I want to do this year, and to that end I have saved the Nine Golden Keys To Mindful Masturbation videos from Erotic Engineering to watch and learn from. I know this is only a start, and that I have tried before and let the whole idea drop because I get too depressed to bother, but this year I want to get beyond that and really get to know myself and, well, grow into my cock. Does that sound wierd?

Many thanks for all your helpful blogs,

Fluffy.

Jean WM said...

January is my re-start month. I figure if I do something for a month it might stick. I also spend it in French Patrick territory. God help the French! Nice that folks are from all over and I won't miss Pat's blog! Happy and healthy New Year to all. Bisous!

Fullmoonma said...

For men, one of the best masturbation resources is Bruce Grether and his http://www.eroticengineering.com/ site. There are a bunch of instructional videos there.

whkattk said...

@ Jean - We wish you safe travels, and a wonderful, re-energizing trip. Hugs et bisous! And French Patrick is supposed to deliver more from me to you!

whkattk said...

@ Fluffy - It's not weird at all. Society has been led to believe that men instinctively know what to do with their cocks, and nothing could be further from the truth. Use those videos, then, if you have the time and the money, find a Body electric weekend seminar. The things these folks can teach you will open your eyes to more wonders than you could imagine. The sense of belonging to the brotherhood is incredible. The more you learn how to enjoy your cock, the more fulfilled you will feel. Go for it.