Blogger buddy over at How to Bate - a journal of his masturbation - brought to mind that one of the best, and most important, lessons for men is to know, understand, and love our cocks.
From the tip of the head
to the very root of the shaft.
Learning how we respond to different stimuli, fully understanding the signals of arousal, knowing the difference between a temporary misbehavior and a serious issue. Those are important not only in assisting us in being better partners, but staying healthy.
There are many different resources available to help men do just that. There are books and videos, and in-person instructors. Of all the video and in-person resources, Body Electric is one of the best. They have weekend seminars and week-long retreats for men
Give yourself to yourself. Whether you use books and videos to study in privacy at home, or sign up for a weekend or week-long retreat there's so much you can learn. There is so much you can give. But you must start with the self.