So, wow. This is a tough one.
"I'm the kid with the bat-shit crazy mom. you can post this because I want other guys to know how my dad handled things the whole issue with us. he told me to read your blog. I hope dad doesn't freak out but I watched him jack off. he didn't know of course. it was totally fasinating and I couldn't stop. would I want to sit and pound one out with him as you like to say? I don't think so. I think its enough to know he does and lets me and my brother know its normal and we should do it. hes just always been honest about it. has he seen me doing it? proably. I guess its no big deal if he did. So theres that but I do have a question.
Im about to turn 18 and my brother and me jack together all the time. Is it going to be illegal for us to do that? what about my buddies who won't be 18 until after me?"
First, thanks for chiming in on the whole father-son thing. I know a lot of readers will appreciate hearing your opinion. It would be good to hear it from your dad's position. So, maybe he'll email, too. I think lots of guys stumble across their fathers masturbating.
Just as a lot of fathers stumble across their sons stroking away.
As long as neither one of them treats it like something horrible, like they've been caught with their hand in the cookie jar (to use a cliche), everyone should be fine.
Will it be illegal after your birthday to jack off with your brother or your friends? I don't believe it would be any more illegal than it has been. But the "age of consent" varies greatly from state to state. You might ask your dad to research it. Oh, hell, you can research it yourself. That said, I know several states have begun changing their laws to reflect a more lenient (and, in my opinion, realistic) stance when it comes to this specific issue of consensual activity.
Any ideas, or advice, Readers?