So, I love hearing from you, Ladies. And this was an interesting question:
"I love your blog. The photos of guys together really turn me on. I never thought I'd get to see guys go at it in real life. When a husband can't give more details than "we just hang out and bullshit" but gets indignant when you press for details? I was sure he was cheating on me. So I followed him this last Saturday night. Quite a few guys drove up, parked and went in but my curiosity was still peaked. I waited and then snuck up to the house. They were in the back yard talking and laughing, and at the least I expected a stripper or a hooker. Looking over the fence everyone was naked. Well, some of these men were really hot and a girls allowed to look, right?
I don't know how long I stayed watching and ducking out of sight. Then some of them started jerking off. Hubby included. Whoa. In the three years we've been married he denied he does it. At first I was stunned. I mean, that was my husband in there with his hand wrapped around some guys dick. But I kept watching and damn! This was hot stuff.
Now I want him to host one so I can be here and watch them. But I don't know how to approach him about this. Any ideas?"
And you aren't pissed off at him. That's good. Well, you've just discovered that it really is entirely possible for straight men to enjoy cock. Now, how do you get him to invite this bunch of guys over to your place?
Because your husband even denies he jacks off, you're going to have to take this slow. I mean, real slow. First step, I think, is to initiate it during sex. Get bossy. Sit on his legs so he can't leave, then guide his hand to his cock and verbally encourage him. Tell him how hot it is to see. (Lots of women love watching guys masturbate.) We guys love to hear that stuff. Tell him you want to see him cum all over himself.
Get him comfortable with giving you a show.
Then, you might introduce mutual masturbation porn. You might have to let him "catch" you watching. Again, you have to tell him know how much it arouses you to see men so comfortable doing something as normal and natural as enjoying their cocks together.
Then, you can broach the subject. Let him know that you've known for a long time about the circle jerks. Before he gets defensive (and he will) and denies it (and he will), you have to tell him you love that he does that. It's okay if he wants to host. Yes, someday you want to be able to hide somewhere in the house to watch. Then, whether he shoots 10 gallons of cum with them,
when they're gone you're gonna fuck his brains out - provided he finishes by jacking off.
It might be a long process, but that should do it. I hope it does, anyway. Have fun, but most importantly, make sure you never make him feel guilty for jacking off with his friends.
So, let me finish by asking:
Guys, what would you do if your partner asked this? Would you do it?