Two blog posts today (how2bate and AOM artistry of male) inspired me to talk about spontaneous boners and buddies.
The thing about boners that seemingly pop up out of nowhere,
or those we wake with after dreaming about something completely nonsexual,
is that the rushing of blood to the cock is doing its natural physiological job to keep the tissues of the Cavernosum healthy.
Even men who have had prostate surgery will sometimes experience morning wood. The paraplegic and quadriplegic will experience spontaneous boners. This is the only way for the inner cock tissue to get the blood oxygen it needs.
The rigidness will vary, but the cock still swells.
And this brings me to the buddies part. Men really need to work on their male-male relationships. Oh, here we go again! Back to the Manhood Project. But, it's true. We men need to cease being such delicate flowers.
My God, straight guys. Calm down - it's only a penis. You have one. Is it so awful that you see your friends naked? Or that they see you naked? If you do get naked in front of one another, do you really need to be that skittish that you must stay five feet away form another nude man?
Or that you must flinch or freak out if he touches you?
Why should it be a problem if a buddy happens to get a bit of a boner? Or if he happens to bump into you in the gym shower?
Get real, men. Man up! Cocks and hard-ons are normal, natural, and common. Stop reacting as if they're some dangerous alien from space.