Celebrating PRIDE & Healthy Man Parts
Jab #2 happened yesterday.
Expect the worst, hope for the best.
Sort of like expecting the cock not to work
1st Jab hit me like a truck. This morning: a very sore arm, tired, a little achy, headache.
"I'm straight and have a friend who is openly gay. We've been doing a lot of flirting over the past months and I admit it's been fun and I'm interested and curious. Because I've been surfing blogs and porn sites to find out what might happen I'm very nervous about doing anything I admit it always makes me hard and I jerk off. But, do all gay guys like rimming and anal fucking? Will he be pissed if we start something but I won't want to do those things?"
Flirting how?
Is it clear to him you're interested in exploring? Because that's what your initial foray would be; exploration.
There are plenty of guys who identify as straight and don't have any interest beyond mutual masturbation, frottage, and fellatio. And, I have known a gay couple for years and that's all they do.
If those are your boundaries...if you move forward...you need to tell him about your trepidation. You both need to be comfortable with what takes place. You both need to remember that "No" means "No." And there can be no pouting or offense taken by stopping any activity that you aren't enjoying.
But, let's have readers chime in on this one.
Readers?
While Healthline is promoting porn and erotica as healthy, (Good for You and Better With Porn) we have the flip side with an expected all-out war on it. As Alyson at MEL magazine points out in her latest email blast, some states are raring to stop anyone from viewing anything they don't want you to see.
"Isabelle Kohn outlined the methods different states have undertaken to attempt to outlaw porn in a roundabout way. Wyoming and Utah are giving us a look at what the war on porn could look like in the years to come. These states have bills that aim to enforce anti-porn laws as part of a conservative strategy once known as Project Blitz."
It's a problem that First Amendment proponents must constantly fight. Who has the right to tell anyone what they can and cannot produce? Who has the right to decide what anyone can or cannot read or watch? The same people who claim the right to tell everyone else what they can and cannot do with their own bodies. The people who claim the right to tell everyone else who they can and cannot love, marry, or have sex with. The same people who claim the right to stop the most common and natural sex there is: Masturbation.
It was the old "Good news, Bad News" kind of visit to the eye specialist. Figures, doesn't it? The swelling is gone - I can get glasses. But I can look forward to slowly losing my sight, anyway.
Another M.D.: Macular Degeneration. Like the Muscular Dystrophy wasn't enough. Sheesh. #sometimesgenessuck #amiright?
The weather promises to be warm and sunny this weekend...so it can plummet again next week. Mama said there'd be days like this.
