Pre-cum and Your Prostate

To follow-up on yesterday's post: Prolonged constant leaking and dripping of pre-cum - in the absence of arousal and lack of being horny - can be a sign of a Prostate infection. I indicated that from personal experience, an infection can clog up the pipes.

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For weeks my wife asked why there were spots on my briefs, asked if I hadn't cleared properly after taking a piss because of wet spots on my pants. At work, to avoid notice, I placed a folded-up paper towel around the head of my cock to soak up the fluid.

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A couple weeks later, the leaking tapered off and then stopped. I thought things were good. But, then ejaculation became a problem. Suddenly, I couldn't cum.

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Not with intercourse, not with jacking off. After weeks of trying, my balls ached so bad it hurt to move.

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On a Saturday morning, I went into the bedroom and teased and stroked and pounded away. Nothing. My wife came in to help. Nothing. The ache in my nuts was horrific. I was desperate to cum and all the usual tricks had failed.

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Monday morning I called a urologist for an appointment. Pants and briefs removed, I sat in his exam room. He came in with a new chart, asked what I was there for. I was in such discomfort, and so desperate, the words just blurted out, "I can't cum, and my balls are killing me."

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"You're too young for this to be happening." He stood me up, gently checked my man-berries, ran his fingers along the shaft of my cock and squeezed the hole open to check for obstructions. "How long has it been? Can you cum if you masturbate?" Weeks, and no, I told him.

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He bent me over the exam table and, sitting on his stool, pushed in a finger, then two, then three. He pushed and massaged. I got one humongous boner. He kept on probing, He suddenly removed his fingers, grabbed my arm, stood me up and spun me around to face him. He wrapped his KY-lubed hand around my cock and stroked a few times. My balls yanked up, and I shot like a cannon.

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He jacked me until the cum slowed to a lava flow. I, of course, was highly embarrassed. This poor doctor was covered in cum. His lab coat, his face and neck, his hand, and the floor around us were all splattered with jizz. And the odor was nasty.

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He grabbed a bunch of paper towels, handed me some and told me to clean myself up, and wiped his face and neck. He casually went back to the chart, and while he scribbled, apologized, "Sorry, but it had to be done. You have a severe prostate infection. Heavy antibiotics for a week. You need to keep the plumbing cleared out to prevent this from happening again. I want you to jack off at least twice a week in addition to any sex."

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The next time the leaking began I was smart enough to go see my regular physician. He gathered pre-cum onto a slide, and checked it. "Prostate infection. Antibiotics for a week. And more regular ejaculations."

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Pre-cum is great stuff. But cum is better.

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Pre-Cum is Great Stuff...But

It amazes me how much knowledge some people lack about their own bodies. The issue of pre-ejaculate, or pre-cum, appears to confound as many men as it does women.

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Women asking why they find spots of semen stains when doing their spouses' laundry, and then fearing their man is cheating or secretly jacking off (which is another issue completely!).

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Men asking what the leaking is and why they leak so much...even without an erection.

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Doctors are clear to point out that all men are different; some leak like an open faucet, others produce very little to none at all.

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Pre-cum is a clear, slippery fluid produced by the Cowper Glands. These are located adjacent to the Prostate. During times of sexual arousal the fluid coats the urethra to cleanse it of ureic acid left behind after taking a whizz.

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The slickness of it helps to lubricate the urethra to reduce friction for better velocity.

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It also aids in lubricating the cock to reduce the friction of whatever it might be sliding against.

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It's really great stuff.

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But, what some guys - and many women, evidently - don't understand is that we don't need a boner for pre-cum to begin flowing. Extreme horniness and a lack of cumming can be one cause.

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However, if a guy is constantly leaking, causing wet spots on his pants

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(Henry, I hope you don't mind that I hi-jacked this picture in the interest of education)

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and there is no apparent reason for it, it could very well be a sign of a Prostate infection. The infection irritates the Cowper Glands which then begin their job.

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I can say from personal experience, a Prostate infection can get so bad as to clog the plumbing, preventing a man from cumming. And, trust me, you don't want that to happen. 

Every Male Has One

The response to Friday's post was phenomenal. Thank you to everyone who responded - whether by comment or email. There are so many things about our packages of which the vast majority of society are so completely unaware.

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And men are to blame. Yes, we are. We hide these issues, we deny having them, we fear seeking medical attention, because we're too embarrassed to talk about them. We fear doctors will either give us some horrible news or tell us we're crazy.

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We fear being ridiculed by our friends. But our friends are no different.

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This is what keeps guys in the dark about the natural, physiological responses...making us wonder if we're weird, if we're nuts, or if we're not at all "normal." This is what makes men suffer in silence when communication could - and can - help us in all areas of our lives.

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Soak up all the information you can. Share it. Especially among your buddies. Opening up to other guys will typically find plenty of responses like, "Oh, holy shit! That's happened to me, too. Here's what I did for it..." 

Or, "Thank God. I thought there was something wrong with me."

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Be open. Be honest. It's a cock. Every male has one. It will help you learn to take pride in what you were born with and how it functions.

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Spontaneous Cum???

Thank you all for your comments and emails. You are all very much appreciated!

As I was going through my photos, I ran across one that I'd meant to discuss and it got lost somewhere in the shuffle. We've all heard about wet dreams - nocturnal ejaculations which relieve pent-up arousal. And most of us have had them - and maybe still do from time to time.

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But, have you ever been otherwise occupied and suddenly - without warning - you get a really hard spontaneous erection and shoot a load of jizz?

That's what happened to this poor guy

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This is known as a Spontaneous Ejaculation (SE) and, yes it is a thing. Clinically it's described as Ejaculatory Dysfunction or EjD. It is rare but happens more often than we realize.

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These unexpected cum shots can be caused by stressful situations, nervousness over a test, or an interview, a project at work; PTSD is a common cause; even some medications can cause these sudden orgasmic spasms.

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According to the International Journal of Urology there are two types of EjD:

"Pathological spontaneous ejaculation (SE) is a rare clinical condition of ejaculatory dysfunction (EjD). SE is divided into two groups, physiological SE and pathological SE. Physiological SE refers to nocturnal emissions (wet dreams) and diurnal emissions with sexual excitement. Physiological SE does not have the pathological significance. In contrast, pathological SE indicates that ejaculation occurs in the absence of any sexual stimulation, desire, thoughts or erection. Pathological SE occurs in various conditions, such as anxiety, panic, psychological stress, complications of psychiatric drugs and spinal cord injury."

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The article states that SE can be controlled with medication. The treatment "of SE by Silodosin is very unique and effective. This treatment only inhibits the physiological emission and projectile ejaculation SE."

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But, if you read that statement carefully, it really only treats wet dreams or premature ejaculation. Of course, there are better ways to prevent shooting off like a Minuteman Missile.

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But, if you are one of those guys who experiences wet dreams on a regular basis, this might be the answer.