Thursday, May 4, 2017

What Makes Solo Sex So Good?

Masturbation is still thought to be the last resort of release for guys because they can't get laid. But it shouldn't be. 
Couples can masturbate together.

To watch is not just for the erotic visual to heighten arousal. Because we do things for ourselves that feel good to us, it's a great way to learn what our partners enjoy.

What makes solo sex so good is the ability to speed things up, then to slow down and back off, to make the pleasure last as long as we want. We cum when we're ready, not because a partner is ready.


We can pound one out in a few minutes,

or tease and play for hours.


Masturbation should not be a supplement to partner sex, it should be a regular part of a normal, healthy sex life.


SickoRicko said...

Very hot post!

Xersex said...

masturbation is very relaxing
I masturbate when I can't sleep and OMG how much does it work!

AOM said...

Amen! Not matter your relationship status - Masturbation (Self-Loving) should be a regular part of our lives. Thanks for all you do for us, bro. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM

mistress maddie said...

I agree. I do enjoy man on man, and sometimes man on man on man, but I also love masturbation too. Daddy Warbucks is in town and had never heard of this month. So last night he requested a show. He loves to watch me. So the celebration had begun......

Patrick said...

Great as always! Most of my sex was solo sex! So masturbation! There are 101 ways to do it and then still a thousand more! Yes! Let it be an integral part of your sex life! The quick one when you need it, but the longer, more enjoyable one just for the wonderful experience! You have no one else to please or satisfy except yourself! VIVE LE MASTURBATION! Make this May a very special one!

A French Patrick said...

Any sailor could confirm how much it is important to purge the ballasts, located on both sides of the mast for not to tip, or heel excessively in high winds.
And that's also what we have to do with the BALLasts located on both sides of our main mast ("se vidanger les ballasts" is a French saying).
The sex wears out if we do not use it.
Sorry for having been MIO yesterday, I was listening to the French presidential debate. I clearly made the bad choice. Shame on us if Marine LePen is elected.
Love, hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.

Jean WM said...

Practice, practice,practice! Remember our teachers said there is always room for improvement.

French Patrick, do you have a lucky charm to take with you when you vote? Bisous.

Mark Gaulding said...

I really enjoy seeing your homage to masturbation and encouraging self-sex. It is very alluring. I would say to all adults. Enjoy your body and your sexuality. With time, when you age, age just eliminates this important aspect. I love this blog because it presents human sexuality in such an enticing way. I so miss the days when I could masturbate for as long as I wanted. Life is very quick. Relationships and other restrictions prevent us from exploring this aspect of our soul.

As always, loved this blog!

Anonymous said...

I have to say I'm really glad our dad encourages me and my brother. He gets us real lube and we always have a stack fo clean handtowels for cumrags. Ha he even told me to read here this month.

Gabriel said...

I have always enjoyed masterbation with a boyfriend when maybe one of us is not in the mood for sex but there to touch and hold while the other gets off. Maybe that is a little unusual, but I do like that. (Of course it is a rare occurrence when I am not ready for sex, but it does happen from time to leap year!).