A reader remarked in the comments the other day about the plethora of articles on men's sexuality and sex which are written by women. I think men are too afraid to write about these things.
Men are too shy to talk about these things - other than, maybe, making jokes.
Men are too ashamed to admit to and write about sexual issues.
I've been saying for the last 9+ years that men are much better at hand jobs than women.
It's why I recommend mutual masturbation - particularly straight couples.
Here's a woman who gets it. In her short article for Medium, Male Masturbation Isn't Gross, Tracybyfire goes whole hog on the double-standard of men v women when it comes to solo sex.
"When it comes to handling a penis, I’m just not adept.
Maybe it’s a lack of practice. Maybe I’m just uncoordinated. I never learned to swim, and I can’t ride a bicycle. Some people just aren’t cut out for certain tasks.
That’s why you’ll never hear me complain about a man who takes matters into his own hands. Do you masturbate? Fantastic. I’d be more than happy to hear about it. I can watch. I can cheer you on. I can even be of some assistance, with the proper motivation and detailed step-by-step instructions — but I will never call it gross."
This 3-5 minute read is worth the time. Especially for you straight dudes who read this blog.