Many of us are feeling quite anxious, craving some type of interaction with others. That's one of the things that makes following and commenting on other blogs a plus. I have gotten to know quite a few of my followers as we trade comments and emails.
We really are not alone.
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An email question in the middle of all of this:
"My son is now 14 and no different from other kids his age. His dad is no longer in the picture and I'm struggling with how to approach an issue. My son is totally blind. He manages pretty well with most things and doesn't complain because he's never known anything else. For a mom I'm doing my best with his budding sexual urges. I have one problem and hope you and your readers might help. He cleans himself up after he masturbates but he's what guys call a shooter. He can't see and leaves quite a lot of splatters behind. How do I approach this with him without embarassing him?"
First of all, the more you talk about his budding maturity, the more you normalize the masturbation, the less embarrassing it will be to talk about those things.
I'm not sure how he goes about searching for drops and splatters of cum. So, I'd suggest finding a way to corral the spurting but without dampening the full effect of the ejaculation. Maybe drape a towel over himself - his stroking hand under it, as if he's stroking under the covers of his bed. The shots will be stopped by the material.
He could slip a sock over his cock just as he's about to cum.
He could try condoms, but that could get expensive, especially if he's as active as any normal guy his age.
Any suggestions, Readers?
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I believe you gave some great advice in here, actually. Think you pretty much covered it (literally, with a condom/sock). Think the sock is the way to go.
Also, this may not be for long, he may find a girlfriend or a boyfriend so he may not be alone in a few years and he'd possibly have some help. Then again, who knows what the future holds.
The showers may not be a bad idea as an often location, as well. Talking to other parents about things like this may help as well, seek for advice elsewhere. Best of luck!
That's a hard one, no pun intended. it's so hard to judge how and what force, and in what direction it may fly. I'd say right before the moment, cover with a towel, would be best. but he may like the feeling of the shower he gets when he climaxes', so that may hamper that. But probably the best option.
The towel and the sock are two very good suggestions. I've used a sock many times; it does add a different feel that's not altogether bad.
I like your answers. I'd add a FleshLight as it will hold a deposit quite well. Most important part is what you suggested - normalize it. It is something we all do and experience and should not in the least be embarrassing or cause nervousness. It is what it is and we all do it so let's all get over it and treat it as it is - Normal! Enjoy your weekend, my Dear Friend. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
Ohhh
The sock trick! The memories.
And I think the more parents do to normalize sex the healthier approach their kids will take to it.
Damn. Now I’m thinking about the men I’ve known who usually shoot far....
XoXo
since I was ashamed with my parents to leave traces of my cum, I did as the penultimate. But I used (and still use) a disposable tissue. So I don't have to clean up at all.
I have heard that there is a country where those who violate the containment at home can be executed without trial by the military.
Another country where the President has granted himself full powers, starting with that of punishing by five years in prison for anything said against him.
If not excellent prophylaxis, what else?
On the other hand, the reduction in the number of road deaths or pollution-related deaths saves far more lives than the lives stolen by the Coronavirus.
One cannot have it both ways.
Have a wondrous weekend, my darlings Jean and Pat. Hugs and bisous;
When I first started to masturbate I shot the cum into my underwear. I guess my mother did not approve and there was always a box of Kleenex by my bed after that. As I was about to cum, I shot it into 2 Kleenex's wrapped around my cock. So, it was not until after college and I lived on my own that I found out how much fun it is to shoot onto my chest.
I would recommend some type of closed-end male masturbator. To start off the Tenga eggs are very discrete, easy to clean & care for, and feel great. Bravo to you Mom for understanding that this is natural, necessary, and for trying to find a solution without embarrassing your son.
"the more you talk about his budding maturity, the more you normalize the masturbation, the less embarrassing it will be to talk about those things."
That really is a good answer. The other might be a support group for parents of blind teens. And when all else fails try a little humor, which seems to work when trying to talk about something difficult. Hugs and bisous.
I guess we really need to hear from other men with visual impairment. This guy certainly isn't the first. How does he handle other personal, hygiene and bodily functions? Maybe this parent is worrying too much about male issues. I'm sure he will figure out how far he squirts without parental help in that area. Seems the parent is too aware and clearly analyzing her son's masturbatory habits right down to how much he shoots. A little strange to say the least.
You are a wonderful mother. Congratulations for doing your best with his sexual urges. I would look for a male adult to talk about this with him. First to congratulate him on having such a jet/spurt (please excuse my pour english) and then to find a manly solution.
1. Cup the head of his penis in his hand as he shoots, capturing the sacred essence.
2, Rub his spermy hand all over the front of his body - honoring his body with this special nectar.
3. Before it dries, mop it up with a cum rag and put in wash basket.
We keep a stack of towels the size of wash cloths for this purpose beside our bed - it's a good use of towels that may have become ripped or torn.
OK, I can't imagine my mom telling me this in the 1950's- her approach was to never acknowledge or interrupt my bating. But I'm guessing this mom has a way of referring written material to her son, and he has a way of converting it to a format he can read or listen to.
Has he been the first ecologist?
A quote from Victor Hugo (1802-1885):
"It is a sad thing to think that nature speaks and that mankind does not listen to it."
Bisous.
White athletic sock is the go-to answer I think.
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Now that I've seen what others have suggested, I realize, I totally forgot about male masturbator toys. They're perfect for this but, he would have to clean the masturbator every time and very well. It's a great idea!
Interesting topic - for me growing up, when I discovered masturbation, it was always something done under he sheets and inside the underwear. I learned the sock trick WAY early on, and always kept an old worn pair either in the nightstand or hidden under the bed. It was like "Raging hardon... meet fuzzy tube of joy!" Learned real fast to double roll the sleeve for extra sensation. To read that this male just seems to leave splatters says a lot about how he approached stroking off - unabashed, open, naked and enjoying it. Just not aware of the distance he's covering.
Ah.... youth.
Tissues.
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