Nothing to Worry About

 

Morning

"I'm 100% str8 so why would my dick get hard with a guy giving me a massage? This can't be normal. I mean, I heard guys get hard during a massage so I asked for a dude so that wouldn't happen. there's no way he coldn't notice it but he didn't say anything. I mean, the head was poking out the top of the towel and the whole thing kept waving around while he was working on me. he never touched it though his hands brushed against my nuts a couple times. thank god he never said a word after when I was leaving. wtf was that about?"

I'm sure he noticed. He didn't say anything because his training prepared him for just such a situation. Because it does happen. It is normal. A physiological function. It's usually a result of complete relaxation. Your cock doesn't need stimulation to get hard, those spontaneous BOE (blood oxygen erections) pop up all the time. Add the movement of your body and, well...it'll just get harder. Lots of men try to stave it off during a massage by thinking about something completely non-sexual, but it doesn't always work. As you found out.

Just think...next time you go for a massage, it may happen, it may not. But you'll know a boner is nothing to worry about. 

Another Rare Update & Random Boners

 

Good morning.

Way back in Nov. 2022, a divorced guy wrote about a friend who expressed interest in being bate buddies. In Dec. 2022, he sent an update that they had given it a try, enjoyed themselves, and a 3rd had joined in.

Now, more than a year later, he just sent the following:

"Another update: we now have 9 guys that join our bi-weekly bate group. Most of us meet when we where at the gym, so we do have more frequent play in the sauna. Just wanted to say thank you for your blog and your words of encouragement. Be safe."

The bi-weekly at a private home is preferable to a gym. Unless, of course, it's a men's spa or a place where it's condoned by management.

Then, this comment about random boners and jacking off was left on Friday's post:

"Is it normal for a guy to get random hardons during the day either at work or at home that can only be gotten rid of by masterbation ?
I only ask because I was working on a painting the other day that was unrelated to sex when ZI got a persistent hardon that I tried to ignore but after a couple of minutes I had to take a break to have a wank."

It's perfectly normal. Men get those spontaneous erections all the time to supply blood oxygen to the inner tissues. Testosterone levels vary from day to day and, sometimes, the boner just doesn't dissipate on its own. This is why you'll find - or hear about - guys taking a mid-day break to tame the beast.

No Apparent Reason

"So, I’m at the dentist the other day, having a cavity filled (insert pun here).  Anyway, the dentist is drilling away (insert another pun) and I notice that am developing a very complete hard-on.  I’m sitting in the chair, sporting a full woody and there’s no way to disguise/hide it.  The dentist had to notice, but didn’t even slightly acknowledge it.  Why a stiffy?  It’s not the dentist (not my type).  Is it the drill?  Vibration?  The domination (dom has never been a turn-on for me)?  Then, why?"

Guys get erections all the time. For no apparent reason at all. But I think it's part and parcel of the needed blood oxygen. It probably started that way, anyway. 

What makes them balloon to full-on boner?

That could be anything, really. Physical stimulation or mental trigger.

Much like a small thing might trigger a memory (good or bad), it could've been an oral connection without you even realizing it.

If you're concerned about that type of reaction for future dental visits: Place your cock in an "up" position against your abdomen before you go in. That way the erection won't snake down a pant leg and be obvious.

Two Different

 

Happy Friday. A comment the other day:

"If the brain is our largest sex organ then why can't we make a boner go away when we don't want our dick to be hard? I got the biggest one making a presentation yesterday and its not like I could adjust right there in front of everyone though I might as well have because more than a few coworkers noticed. One even mouthed Bro You have a boner."

You've heard the saying, "It's got a mind of its own"? It's the truth. But don't confuse the spontaneous boner with sexual arousal. Those are two different animals, so to speak. One --- the one you got while making your presentation --- is a direct result from the refreshing of blood oxygen to the Corpora Cavernosa / Corpus Spongiosum. Slight stimulation, like the material of your briefs rubbing against your cock, can make you get harder. If you click on the tag BOE at the bottom of this post, you'll find more on the subject.

The sexual --- the "on demand" boner --- is a result of stimulus signals being sent to and from your brain helping to keep you hard. If you've ever started going soft during any sexual activity and used any additional stimuli to boost the boner, you've experienced the brain power over an erection.

Yet, sadly or thankfully, depending upon the immediate circumstance, we don't seem to be able to just will away wood.

The BOE will usually resolve itself. The on demand one resolves with orgasm or ejaculation. Though, some BOEs can require the same action if the outside stimulation continues to keep it hard.

My final thought is don't fret over the episode. The more you act as if it was normal (and a BOE is normal), the sooner the folks in the office might dismiss it.

Faithful Reader Hooter tells me it's a special day in their household.

Happy Birthday to Maximus!