Flat-Out Asked?

 

Morning

"have you ever has someone flatout ask if you jack off?"

LOL. Of course. And I've readily admitted it.

Well, not the first time. That one was asked by a military psychologist. I was young (19), with a very high security clearance, and wasn't sure what would happen if I said "yes." Long story made short: I'd had quite the anxiety attack and was forced to see this guy before I could return to my squadron.

The dude said, "You're single, you say you don't pick up girls in the bars downtown. If you tell me you don't jack off, I can't report you as stable and release you back to work."

I finally did say yes.

Then he wanted to know how many times a week! Um...every day?

'Course, I did not mention the weekly barracks circle jerks.

LOL. It's funny now, but then? Not so much.

When Was...

 

Morning

"whens the first time you saw a dick that wasn't yours or a family members or saw one hard that wasn't yours or a family members?"

Oh, gosh. Probably the first gym PE when we were forced to put on jock straps and take showers afterward. First boner? A buddy's when we started jerking off together. 

But really, I would consider military basic training the real eye-opener. That's when I learned boners weren't all about sex. Waking up in the barracks with 39 guys rushing to the latrine wagging their morning wood to the open urinals and gang showers.

Then there were the weekend circle jerks.

Anyone else care to share?

Any Suggestions?

Morning

"I consider myself straight but I've always been fascinated by dick. I like to look at them, for sure and love watching j/o videos. A while back I went to a Rain City Jacks meeting. It was an interesting experience watching everyone but not really my thing. How do I find a dude who wants to get together for some 1 on 1? Grindr sucks, they all want more than that and taking an ad on Craigslist is too scary. Any suggestions?"

Trust me, you are not an outlier. Even straight porn focuses on the boners, plain and simple. Particularly when it time for the Money Shot - because that's what everyone is there to see.

The jack off groups aren't for everyone. But they do report that approximately 20 to 25% of those attending identify as straight, and many of those are married.

Particularly in the small private groups.

I think a lot of folks will tell you Grindr is for folks looking for more than mutual masturbation. And Craigslist? Well, let's say it seems a bit, um...seedy? so I don't blame you on that score. Bateworld is mostly an online thing for video chatting and bating.

But, there's a website called Buddy Bate that's exactly what you're seeking. It's specifically for men looking to hook up in real life to masturbate.

The logo has an embedded link

Since you mentioned trying out Rain City Jacks, you'll be happy to know that you'll find a lot of guys in that area on Buddy Bate.

Have a fun weekend.