Another Situation

 

Well, first things, first. Thank you for all the positive comments and emails regarding my body check. It all went well. A few spots on my arms needed cryotherapy (frozen). And she confirmed the spot on the head of my cock to be psoriasis for which she prescribed steroid cream for sporadic use.

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We have a response about the Meatal Stenosis (closing of the urethral opening):

"Pat,  I apologize for taking so long to respond.  I just wanted to thank you for everything you’ve done to help me.  The information was more than helpful and an option I am already researching on.  Thank you for your blog and keep up the great work and information. Be Positive and test negative…..   – J"

No apologies necessary, J. We're all very happy we've been able to supply you with a solution. I hope the situation resolves fairly easily.

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Now we have another situation that needs our help.

"Hello, first of all I want to tell you that I love your blog a lot and on many occasions I feel identified with, with all the things that the lockdown brought, I had to move again with my family, before I lived alone and most of the time I was naked at home, I confess I love to masturbate online to relax the tension, but now as you can imagine it is almost difficult and when I do it, I have to do it quickly and I have read that this can cause me to suffer from premature ejaculation, I don't know what to do, so that this doesn't happen , and be able to enjoy the long masturbation sessions that I was used to. Tanks for reading me - M"

Those readers who have been thrust into communal living quarters after having lived free to do as they wish will know exactly what you're going through. Premature ejaculation means "ejaculating before one wants to." So, quick sessions won't cause a physical manifestation.

It is your mental state which could cause this to be a recurring thing once you have moved out on your own again. After you have moved into your own place again, it will be important to remind yourself that you have the freedom and the time to take as long as you want.

In the meantime, though, you still want to be able to enjoy your cock without the furtive rush. It's necessary to your health - mental and physical.

I'm going to suggest edging. When you have five minutes alone - maybe in the bathroom - get yourself hard, and stroke a little bit. But don't cum. You can do this several times each day. This gives you the opportunity to enjoy the pleasurable sensations and deliberately make the session last all day. Then cum when you decide you're ready.

You didn't say if you share a bedroom. If not, you can masturbate when you go to bed at night. You will have to try to be quiet about it...meaning no vocalizations. If you have a squeaky bed, lie or sit on the floor instead.

The saddest part of this situation for any guy is having to hide the activity in the first place. It's a plain and simple fact of life: Guys jack off.

That we feel obliged to hide it is a damn shame.

Readers: Any other suggestions for him?

Help Requested

"I did not know who else to ask about this. Lately, my urine stream was week and I called my doctor. As usual he instructed plenty of water, no caffeine and he prescribed some antibiotics. The next time I was in the shower I examined the tip of my glans and was shocked to discover that half of my opening had closed up. I found on-line that doctors do not know why it happens and my hands are tied and so are my doctors’ because I’m out of work and I have no medical insurance. What can I do? Thank you…… J"

First and foremost, I am not a physician. Any advice I dole out should not be taken as that of a medical professional. What I've been able to find is called Urethral Stricture. And according to the Urology Health there are several ways to treat this. 1. Urethral stretching, 2. Urethrotomy - cutting open the urethra with a laser, 3. Open Surgery - surgical procedure to remove the obstruction with possible reconstruction.

Not only does this depict uncut v cut, this shows urethral stricture

If possible, always begin with the simplest, least invasive treatment. That would be the Urethral Stretching. The doctor would insert a Sounding Rod to open the passage. It may take several treatments to fully accomplish this.

Because you don't have insurance and can't afford to see a Urologist, you could try this yourself. very, very carefully.

You would have get a Sounding Rod. One that you can sterilize with hot boiling water and alcohol both before and after you use it. You must find a lube, and make sure to keep the opening of the bottle clean. Wipe it down with alcohol before using it. Actually, I'd recommend a tube of old-fashioned KY Jelly, like your physician would use.

You cannot risk infection. Make sure the tip is narrow and then widens along the length of the rod. VERY GENTLY, push the rod into the urethra. Slowly!!! And, don't rush things. It may take weeks or even months to open it without damage.

I don't know for sure, but I would imagine this would be a lot easier and safer to accomplish with a full erection.

And, maybe with the assistance of someone you can trust to be cautious.

I know some of my readers are in the medical field. Let's see if any may have a suggestion - or perhaps experience with Sounding Rods. 

Sounding

Faithful Reader mistress maddie asked about "sounding." I posted about this only once before, it might be worth another.

"...Some guy approached us about inserting metal rods in our penis hole. I have seen this in porn but the name escapes me. We passed as it looked painful and I've heard cather nightmares. Can this possiblely be good for the cock?"

Very happy to know you passed on that, mistress. No, it cannot be good for the cock.

Here is how Vice describes it:

"In a medical (that is, non-kinky) context, the purpose of a sound (also spelled sonde) is to gently probe, unblock, or expand a passage inside the human body, most commonly a urethra or uterus. In a sexual context, sounding can provide heightened sensation and pleasure, (more on that to come), and can also be used for control or humiliation in a domination/submission situation."

"The stimulation of the prostate (or p-spot) through the act of sounding is often listed as one of sounding’s main benefits. Indeed, the route of the urethra crosses right through the prostate gland on its way to or from the bladder."

My take on this practice is that it can be very, very dangerous if you don't know what you're doing. And, if you don't use the proper instrument(s). I believe the first post was in response to an article about a young man who ended up in the Emergency Room because he used a glass rod....and it broke inside his cock. He damaged the urethra, and the jagged ends cut through into the cavernosae.

That was not pretty. Nor was it a pretty fix. It required surgery to remove the glass and to repair the interior tissues. (I'll spare you the surgery photos.) It's probably much safer to leave shoving things down your cock to medical necessity. Though the stimulation is closer to the source, there are other ways to get prostate stimulation.

If you enjoy sounding, go for it. But, be cautious. Keep your cock safe.

Find safe ways to enjoy it.

Sounds Good

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A Faithful Reader requested a post on Sounding. This is a practice that began in the medical field for a variety of reasons, the primary of them to remove blockage from the urethra. And, of course for Catheterization purposes. Then it spread to the genital piercing technicians (think Prince Alberts) to assist in the opening, or expanding, of the urethra to help get the tools in that are needed to pierce through the head and place the ring.

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Sounding for sexual reasons, of course, is because somewhere along the line, somebody enjoyed the sensations. Sounds, as they are called in the adult stores, can be made from many different materials: metal, plastic, glass... The length can vary: from very short (the length of the cock head) to very long (to reach into the bladder). Chuck Palahniuk introduced sounding to his readers in the short story "Guts," which appeared in the book Haunted.

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The thing you need to remember is: safety. Never use a sounding instrument that might crack or break, and get lodged somewhere down inside your cock. And, never use anything sharp or pointed that might tear, cut, or perforate your cum-tunnel. Doctors have reported needing to retrieve all manner of things: batteries, pins, wire... Always use a something which has been designed for the purpose.

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And, of course, always sterilize any sounding device before shoving through your cock. Infection is the most common side effect of the activity. If not caught and treated quickly, the infection can spread (and rapidly, I might add) to the rest of the genito-urinary tract: prostate, bladder, kidneys, seminal vesicles, and balls. And never, ever share a device without full sterilization.

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If you like sounding, that's cool. Here at Big Whack Attack, we don't judge; we just want you to keep your man parts healthy. So, enjoy it, but be safe about it. Don't damage your dick for a few moments of pleasure-pain (pain-pleasure).

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Want to try it? Read this to learn how: How to Use Urethral Sounds