Talking Roots

Let's talk roots, shall we?

"I'm in my early 30's and in decent health. My BMI [Body Mass Index] is pretty good. Because I sit at a computer all day I hit the gym every night. Doesn't matter if I'm with someone or by myself I'm still not getting a good solid hard-on. Any idea what is causing this?"

Let's get right to the root of the problem. You spend all day sitting in front of a computer. Let me repeat: Sitting in front of a computer.

Like the tap root of a palm tree, the perineum is the root of the cock. Running through it is a nerve bundle. Damage the nerves along the root, and it will make getting boners difficult. And, in the long run, kill them off completely.

Take a good gander at the cushion you sit on for eight hours a day (if not longer). Sitting at your desk is slowly crushing the nerve bundle.

Desk chairs - unlike newer bicycle seats - are not designed to protect the perineum. Doing an internet search, I sure couldn't find any.

Your only solution is to get one of the adjustable desks. While neither manufacturers nor reviewers list the saving of boners as a benefit, it is. CNET lists the pros and cons of five different ones, ranging in price from $69 US to $400 US.

While your employer may not be willing to spend the money, your peace of mind is worth the personal expense. Your health is worth it. More precisely

your cock health is worth it.

Help A Guy Out

This arrived via email earlier in the week. I saved it for today to give everyone a chance to offer up suggestions for this guy.

"We've been married for almost three years. Sex dwindled but that's typical isn't it? We both surf porn and never felt like we needed to hide that but I was curious as to what she looked at and found your blog in her history and also a huge stash of pics of guys jerking off. I read through a lot of your posts and you quoted sex therapists suggesting couples masturbate for one another. Well, I did it. She cam ehome from work one day and followed the trail of clothing I left on the floor. I was in the shower, stroking my dick. I gave her a real show all night. I stayed naked and kept various levels of hardness while I made dinner, while we ate, while we watched tv. I never let my dick get fully soft. At bedtime I laid down and really got into it. I played with my dick and my balls for a long time. When I finally came it blasted everywhere. I admit it was fun. Problem is ever since she won't anything but to watch me jerk off while she does herself. I miss the actual fucking or the occassional blow job and titty fuck. I've asked, pleaded really. Divorce is not an option and I just can't bring myself to an open marriage just so I can get laid. How do I get her back into those things?"

It's no secret that a lot of women like watching guys masturbate.

It's no secret that women masturbate, which is a good thing. I wonder if she's really a solo-sexual; someone who prefers masturbation over any other activity. But, you're a couple, and if you find the constant jacking off tedious and boring after a while, well... If you've talked to her and she won't budge on a compromise, other than trying mutual masturbation, I'm at a loss.

Readers, can you help a guy out?

In the Meantime II

Thank you all so much for the well-wishes and positive mojo. The minor surgery went well - though I look like a dog with an ear clipped and bandaged. 😃

The retina guy took one final gander at the eye and found nothing askew. Well, no more than it has been for the past eight months, or so. Which means I continue to...wait. 😎

I have not heard anything about French Patrick's surgery, which he underwent on Tuesday. He expected to be in the hospital for a full week. I'm certainly hoping he's on his way to a speedy recovery. 😷

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I should resume my regular posting schedule tomorrow. In the meantime.... 

In the Meantime

Have a doctor appointment today and tomorrow. Today, a minor out-patient surgery. Tomorrow, a local doctor is keeping careful watch on the eye. 

 If he notices anything amiss, he will contact UCLA and get me bumped up in the schedule.

I should be back Thursday.

In the meantime, I'll just drop a few of these here.