COVID and Cock

 

The advantage of having a cock during the CV-19 lockdown came fully to light for me with streaming clarity. I took a friend to a pain clinic for an injection into his spine due to an old back injury. Patients are required to have a driver but not permitted into the building. Even patients had to sit in the parking lot until a medical tech came out to get them. The parking lot was full of people sitting in their vehicles, waiting. I listened to music (Linda Ronstadt and kd lang) and chilled.

When my friend returned to the car, he said he hoped the wait wasn't too bad. No, it wasn't...until I had to pee really bad. He wanted to know if I went inside ask about using a restroom. "Nope. Fuck it, that's what parking lots are for." 

He laughed and told me I was probably on camera. "Oh well."

But it made me appreciate the fact that I can do that if I need to.

Men have a tendency to fail themselves. We fail to fully recognize what our cocks provide. I've read that some guys are growing very weary of jerking off.

But, someday this pandemic will have passed. Things will get back to normal. In the meantime, we must take care of our health. That includes taking care of our cocks.

So, take some time this weekend to appreciate and take care of yours.

Any Avenue

"My husband has a lot of trouble reaching orgasm. He's tried everything. I talked to my gyno and those ideas didn't help. He can't even get there sometimes on his own. He gets so frustated he gives up. Then I see him pulling on his breifs real careful because his balls ache. Isn't there anything I can do to help him?"

Called "delayed ejaculation" medicalnewstoday defines it as "a difficulty or inability of a man to reach an orgasm and to ejaculate semen. The causes can be physical or psychological. if a man takes longer than 30 minutes of penetrative sex to ejaculate, despite a normal erection, it is considered delayed ejaculation."

30-minutes of continued manual stimulation (masturbation) without reaching ejaculation would also qualify. And, yes, not being able to ejaculate can cause vaso-congestion - or Blue Balls, which can be very painful.

Has he talked to his doctor? Gotten a referral to a urologist? If not, he should. Because there was good news out of Mayo Clinic only three months ago regarding just this issue. According to their report, Delayed Ejaculation, from June 18, 2020, men have shown improvement using medications approved for other illnesses, such as Parkinsons and, oddly enough, allergies:

"There aren't any drugs that have been specifically approved for the treatment of delayed ejaculation. Medications used to treat delayed ejaculation are primarily used to treat other conditions.

Medications sometimes used to treat delayed ejaculation include:

• Amantadine, a Parkinson's medication
• Buspirone, an anti-anxiety medication
• Cyproheptadine, an allergy medication"

Beyond that, if you prefer to try some things on your own before going the medication route, there are things you could try.

The glans (head) usually the most sensitive area of the cock. 

But there's this little flap, or stretch, of skin called the frenulum, located on the underside of the shaft and just below the head. Giving this direct stimulation can help. You can try to masturbate him to completion this way.

During penetration, try tightening your vaginal muscles as he withdraws so you are gently grasping his cock adding more friction.

Then there is the Male G-spot; sometimes called P-spot in deference to the Prostate. This gland is where it's at more than most straight men know or want to admit. Though many men do so when they jack off  -especially when they get close to ejaculation.

You can use a variety of ways to stimulate his prostate to help push him to the edge. Insert a finger or other object into his anus and pushing against the prostate. But wait until he's ready: Meaning, he's pumping furiously in an attempt to cum.

If he's not willing to try anal penetration (foolish man!), you can stimulate the prostate externally. Use a thumb or finger at the very root of his cock, just near the anal entrance and massage it.

Not being able to cum is frustrating and painful and, frankly, unhealthy.

He needs to pursue any avenues open to him.

Alone With Yourself

We have another bit of important election news.

FBI Alert #I-092220-PSA

Warns about foreign interference in the reporting of election results. Specifically to sow doubt regarding the legitimacy of the election.

This year's elections will take much longer to count due to COVID-19. Therefore it will take longer to report the results. When surfing social media - or any media, for that matter - do not accept any reported results unless they have been certified by your state's election authority.

The above alert has information on what to do if you suspect a report is illegitimate.

Please do yourself a favor and read it. Maybe save the link.

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With all the nonsense going on, the divisive attitudes, some self-pleasure can help us take our minds off of the troubles and relieve at least some of the anxiety.

Take another day of pure enjoyment.

Keep the strokes slow, but varied.

Take time to savor the hardness even after you cum.

Make the pleasure last. Don't rush the strokes when you shoot. Instead, time them to each spasm.

Spend a long, lazy day alone with yourself.

Enjoy What You've Got

Those fraudulent notices began showing up in the mail last week. They are put together by the states' Republican Committees to confuse people. So, there's the "mail fraud" that they have been warning us about. Always check your state's official election website for information on your registration status.

Remember to be a good Bottom when you vote, too. 

Your state and local election races matter a whole bunch this time. Vote them like your boner depends on it.

I've really go nothing to post about today. All I can do is wish you all a lovely day and evening.

Be proud of what you've got.

Enjoy what you've got.