So many thoughtful responses to Friday's post. The writer has a lot of options to consider. The best might be to have a talk with this guy he's hooked up with and remain friends without the benefits until such time as he's ready to freely enter into a relationship (if that's what he wants).
In the meantime, the need to relieve aching nuts can't (or shouldn't) be ignored, either. Return to taking matters to hand (your own).
If the sensations of penetrative, thrusting are what you miss
as suggested by a couple of Readers, a FleshLight might be the route to take.
7 comments:
Good suggestions AND hot post!
wanktastic
I have a Fleshlight like the one of the Videoboys has.
It's awesome and very exciting too…
Must know that you have to take care of it and follow the maintenance shown in the owner's manuel. The silicone inside is fragile if you don't do the proper maintenance.
Using water lube is a must here.
Hey Bro! I'll be right over to help stroke you off! : ) Totally agree about the Fleshlights - they are great. I don't use mine often but when I am ready for a nice change of pace, they are awesome! Have a super duper wankalicious day, my Friend. Hugs, Licks and Strokes, AOM
Great idea about the Fleshlight to help in the short term. I hope his friend will understand and be patient about the situation.
Part of the issue which may not be solved by JO would be lack of masculine fellowship. If he is Christian try to find a weekly men’s group or join a civic group that meets weekly like the Lions and try to make a close nonsexual friend there.. Unfortunately this might take some time. Another option might be to pick up a male friendship from the past, like a high school buddy or college roommate. Give them a call and see if he could check in daily or weekly. Caregiving is exhausting emotionally and physically. Peter Rosenberger has a you tube video on taking care of his wife and also has a radio program for caregivers and has written two books. There are resources online for caregivers. He should know there are others going through what he is going and there are resources.
It’s time for the wife to meet the guy that is taking care of her husband. It matters greatly to the husband that his wife is comfortable as she can be, in all ways. She might even like the guy and appreciate that he is caring for her husband. - Glenn
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