Maturbation month is almost half over and the level of satisfaction we get during solo sex can vary. Yesterday, for the first time in...I can't remember how long, my cock got hard. The longer I played, varying the stroke, the touch, the teasing, the harder it got.
We need to learn to take our time, to change things up, to enjoy ourselves.
That includes following instinct; allowing our hands to wander and discover.
We tend to concentrate on the cock a bit too much when there are other areas which provide as much - if not more - pleasurable sensation.
The Prostate serves an integral part of our sexual release. It contributes a good portion of the ejaculate. It pulses with each spurt when we cum. But many straight and bi men sometimes forget the Male G-spot. Or, they're afraid to explore it.
As one anonymous reader commented yesterday, the man in question may be too embarrassed to allow his wife to watch him masturbate because he enjoys anal touch or penetration; he may be afraid she'll think he's "gay" if she sees him penetrating himself.
But, straight men have been discovering that prostate massage adds to the pleasure. So much so that it can send us right over the edge.
I'll go so far as to suggest to the woman who wrote in to be brave enough try it with her husband. First with exterior massage along the perineum, just above the hole. If she gets a good response, she can delve further, slowly working her way to penetrative manipulation.
Once he realizes that she's okay with it, he'll be more comfortable allowing her to watch him go solo.
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As usual, an excellent post with excellent visuals!
I ave a straight friend of mine that we occasionally masturbait together. Last time we got together I suggested letting me stick a dildo in his ass while I jacked him. He loved it and enjoyed it, but now hes worried he has gay tendencies. I was like oh please. Just because you enjoy it ass play doesn't make you gay I told him.
very erotic pics!
The pessimist says that May "is half over", and the optimist says we have half the month left.
I choose to be optimistic, thus I wish you a good end of the month to both of you, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Give yourself the luxury of time. We are in such a hurry to do everything, turn off the devices and turn on the music and incense. Appeal to all your other senses.
Hugs and bisous.
Excellent advice as always! It is hard for me to imagine the female perspective on male masterbation because I have only been with men. I would think that incorporating masterbation into a male/female relationship would add variety to their sex life. I think it would be hot to walk in on your partner and watch him/her in the middle of self pleasure.
If the wife has long fingernails then I would think that her trying to do a prostate massage might be a bit dangerous at least until she learns how to do it.
@ Jean - Amen!
God, is anal sex the new "full genital maturity" (in contrast to the "immature" clitoris) or what? Sucks for those of us too big or whose buttholes clench too tight when we get an erection.
I guess I'll just have to enjoy my penis, and its frenulum and inner foreskin. (This isn't even a gay thing. I have plenty of experience jerking off with guys, frotting guys, doing interfemoral with guys, but I just am physically incapable of anal.)
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