"I get that guys get erections all the time and can’t hide them. I get that guys have the need to adjust the goods. I get that some guys like to go commando. But why do they feel the need to flash in public?"
Well, those flashes
aren’t necessarily intentional. We don’t call it a “dick slip” for no reason. Sometimes
it just happens. And, no, we don’t always realize it when it happens.
The best thing you can do in this situation depends on whether
or not you know the guy. Or how well you know him. If he’s a close friend or relative,
you might want to tell him, “The horse is out of the barn.” Or some wording of the
nature that will alert him that his cock is showing. If it’s a stranger, avert your gaze and go about
your business.
As Dear Abby mentioned several months ago, men's genitals are on the outside of the body and there is no reason anyone should be making a big deal out of seeing them.
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I never forget about I year ago I was out with a friend in the summer for dinner in Ne Hope, and there was a guy in shorts having dinner and his short opening was just so. Gave me a clear view of his hanging fruit almost popping out. Who was I to complain about that! He had a nice dick.
I LOVE it when someone's slips (other than my own lol). Its refreshing to see when you least expect it. There are slips that happen organically and its either funny or "hot". Some let it slip on purpose and if its only adults then who cares. I don't understand anyone's problem with the naked body myself. I'd be a nudist if I could.
very erotic post and pics
Hee hee. I just stare. I look up to check their eyes and then go back to staring. That allows them to get the 'head's' up :)
Why do guys go commando?
--briefs are too tight
--boxers get all bunched up
--tight trousers are sexy
--my meat attracts the right kind of attention
Why do men flash their goodies?
--because they're there
--because they like fresh air
--because their goodies are hot 'n' sticky
--because they're showing off
--because you're sexy and they think you can appreciate them
--because they're DOM (Dirty Old Men) and like to see you blush
(of course, as the song says, some men have equipment to
"make old girls blush and young girls scream")
--Some guys are totally unaware (don't they feel the breeze?)
Now, as someone said, every man has one and a pair. Of course, some guys have one-and-a-half or two, and a pair. Those are the ones worth showing off. Guys with less-than-one and a pair don't have a lot to show off (although they may think they do). Perhaps seeing everyone else's will convince some show offs that they shouldn't be showing off!
If the horse is out of the barn, the best to do is to close the gate. All the descendants of cowboys know it.
It's a good thing that men's genitals are on the outside of the body to keep them at the ideal temperature. Everyone knows they are not just decorative.
It's more annoying when it happens to women.
Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
First, is that Virgo Mortensen on that bus?
Second, there’s few things sexier than a dick slip. Especially if the man has a nice dick, as Maddie says.
Not complaining. Nope.
XoXo
Great subject and comments. Thanks to all for their explanations. I agree a dick and balls are just another part of the body. If you see 'em be happy. I love the view! Wishing you all the best my Dear Friend. Hugs, Licks, and Strokes, AOM
What a fun post, and fun answers, too.
The way old-style boxers with a snap-close fly used to nonetheless gap slightly, maybe not flashing a glimpse of dick, but definitely portending adult MALENESS with the dark hint of pubic hair—this formed a big part of the development of my same-sex attraction. I used to wonder how the guys on tv managed never to have that gap occur when they were shown in boxers, and greatly regretted the non-occurrence.
Even today, you never get that teasing hint of darkness. You’d think in this day when you can so casually display nudity, at least on cable—even, occasionally, actual erections, in some ways that gaping is even more sexy than mere nudity.
LOL, chances are slim to none women will ever notice unless that is the purpose of the "display.".
We just never look there that often. Why, because we don't want to get caught when 90% of the time there is nothing to see. And then what message have we sent.
It sure is complicated. LOL. Hugs and bisous.
It happens, yeah. 🤷♂️
And LMAO at Mark Wahlberg casually being dragged in this. 😜
@ Six - It is indeed Viggo Mortensen in a scene from "Captain Fantastic." Great film btw.
@ Victorian - The reason you don't see any gaping of the fly on the boxers guys wear in films is because the wardrobe department has sewn the fly closed. Kind of sad, but those actors fear the "slip" might make them lose work. Total nudity is considered a necessity of a role.
@ Hot Guys - Yep. I had to...he's been caught on camera adjusting the goods more than once, so I figure he's not afraid of being a normal guy.
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