"my brother and me shared a room at home. we slept naked and never worried about morning boners. Now here we are in our 40s back home for our dad's funeral and having to share that same room and we're going to be here a while. suddenly he won't sleep naked because his wife won't let him. and he wouldn't get out of bed until his dick went down because of some stupid comment his wife made years ago. I think it's ridiculous it's not healthy and told him he needs to find his balls again. do guys really give up comfort for their wives?"
My condolences for your loss. I have no doubt that some people do give things up when they get married. The old adage "happy wife, happy life" is usually the reason. For something like this, it's a bullshit reason, especially considering the health benefits of sleeping nude.
Some women don't like the pre-cum (that sometimes happens with nighttime boners) staining the bed linens, so they'll insist their men wear something at night.
Well, pre happens and they need to get over it.
As for waiting to roll out of bed until the cock goes soft? For some reason, she's made morning wood embarrassing for him. You'd think by now guys getting morning wood would be common knowledge and accepted as a fact of life. Sometimes, a guy needs to take a stand. This is one of them.
Not much you can do about that except remind him you've seen it a million times before and he's got no reason to hide it from you.
Readers, have you made concessions like this to a spouse or partner?
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Yes. wife thinks its a sin to masturbate, If she catches me she thinks I dont love her! Trust me Im getting so I dont
NO! Maximus and I both sleep nude. If she is so worried about the linens, I guess there are no wet spots to ever worry about.
It's also a matter of personal comfort...
Furthermore, if he's sexually fulfilled, I don't think he should have any nighttime "leaks"...
You need to talk about it together; it's certainly the best thing to do.
Jeff (Bordeaux)
If the wife is not present what's it matter? I will never understand why people are so bothered by one sleeping naked. Im in clothes all day...so come bed time...its naked!
My concession is to stay single all of my life.
Frankly, it sounds like homophobic behavior on the part of the sister-in-law. Women are rightly quick to proclaim "my body, my choice". Men should be the same.
The answer is yes?
Straight men make concessions to their wives?
I make concessions to men with whom I have relationships. It happens when you’re in a relationship.
XOXO
Nope!
My dad and I never hid morning wood from each other. When he caught me jerking off, he often did it himself. When I went away to college, I had to restain myself because I found that not everyone was raised to be so free.
Close friend and his wife. He cant do anything with his own dick and when (has happened many times) he has been caught jerking off or even with a hard on that she did not initiate the whole street hears he is cheating on her (screaming out 'who you f**king you MF!). If he cant get it up when she wants to get on it; instantly accused of cheating. Even their kids at the time would run around saying 'who you f**king *their dads name*'. They have grown up since then and have almost shut her out of everything.
She too runs around saying 'happy wife, happy life' at every chance she has when putting him down. We were all in the kitchen one time at their house and she was going off at him, followed it up with 'happy wife, happy life' and laughed at him. I had had enough by then and said straight to her face 'you are the reason why guys go gay for and you are nothing but a bitter bitch'.
Stood there in silence for a few minutes. He didnt get yelled at, berated or accused of cheating for a good 6months. She is a vile piece of work.
In my own relationship; always nude. We only put clothes on if we are cold.
Nope. Beautify and erotic pics with this post.
My brother and I used to sleep naked together, go swimming together, and change in front of each other, but I don't think we'd do it today.
I don't believe pre-cum actually stains sheets as it washes out easily. If the wife is so concerned, he can offer to do the sheets himself: it only takes a minute to load the machine. Women these days seem to complain they do too much of the housework, so this would be a win-win.
That reminds me of the joke about the wife who said "not tonight dear I have a headache" and the husband responds "that's why I dusted my dick with aspirin beforehand".
There's no need to capitulate, but find alternatives and workarounds and if that doesn't work, then the actual reason is something else entirely and its just being used as an excuse, so it's important to address what is actually going on.
The guy's wife is not there to be concerned: tell him to live a little whilst he has the chance as you don't mind.
It's already sad that men can't express their own sexuality in a relationship, but are limited by the partner's own wishes and prevented from going elsewhere for surplus needs.
His life, his choice, sadly
Oy... Some women still haven't learned what makes men tick.
Ha! I never thought about that. Interesting note on that subject.
Exactly. If brothers can't talk about these things, who can?
IDK - guilt, maybe? Or habit??
Smart man. Smart man.
Especially when it comes to keeping things safe and out of harm's way.
True. We all make concessions all the time in all facets of our lives.
XOXO
You're a rare guy, Rick!
True.... In fact, most people are not raised to be that free.
That couple could be my first in-laws. It was a shame to observe such awful behavior. Good for you.
I'm nude whenever it's warm enough. Never get complaints.
You and Rick are rare exceptions.
Interesting that you wouldn't do those things now. Any idea why?
LOL. I love that joke! never heard that before, but it's a good one.
Exactly. She's not there - take advantage of it.
You'd think so, wouldn't you? I never asked people i was in relationships with if I could sleep nude. I just did. In fact, I actually announced it to my current wife (of 38 years) the very first time she stayed in my 1-bed apartment.
My Dad was super closed off. My Mom was the "free" one. I wished it had been the other way LOL.
Well, for one, he's married, and women tend to assume the worst.
I don't have a brother, having zero modesty I don’t care showing my small cock!!
I would think seeing a man naked, or even a naked erection would be the least thing on a woman's mind the first time she stays with a man overnight in a 1-bed apartment.
At one time, I (thought I) was straight. Had a fiance. I also had a group of male friends that she gradually weeded out of my life. Finally, I had a good male office work friend; looked like Robert Hayes from "Airplane!". I worked part time at a health club in RI. One of the perks of working at the health club was free use of the racquet ball court. He came down from Boston for an overnight so that we could get in some racquet ball, and we were BRUTAL! Body slamming each other; checking each other into the walls. I had a bloody nose, he had multiple bruises. It was GLORIOUS!!! We were laughing - hooting and hollering! Whooping it up and talking trash. The whole time, she stood outside the glass wall of the court, arms folded, and FUMING! I could see it in her - jaw clenched, eyes narrow. We were all going out for dinner after getting cleaned up. Leaving the health club, she was giving me the cold shoulder. I ask "Okay, what's wrong?" She exploded, "You NEVER treat me like [him]!" I responded "Okay..." and then I body slammed her into the hedges.
We ended the engagement a day or so later.
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