"I went to the doctor with my husband. Don't get me wrong, it's fine by me but, ffs, when did doctors start telling men they should jack off more?"
- "While the exact mechanisms are not fully understood, theories suggest that frequent ejaculation may help flush out potentially harmful substances from the prostate gland, potentially reducing the risk of prostate-related issues."
But it doesn't stop there. Jacking off is good for overall health, too. It raises the heart rate, lowers stress levels and blood pressure, among other healthy outcomes.
Men can have multiple ejaculations every day. Well, not necessarily one right after another - except when they're "young, dumb, and full of cum" as the saying goes. But at least one per day wouldn't be excessive.
Since you don't mind, you can always offer to lend a hand. I'm sure he wouldn't mind.
Once in a while, anyway.
On a separate note, reader Gene asked where he could get the pen holder featured in both Wednesday and Thursday posts.
Both Utah Jock and Laurent report this website:
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I still will never understand what the big issue is with men jacking off. Luckily this writer doesn't mind but I think a lot of women just don't get it. Even my doctor said how healthy it is for men, not only sexually and mentally but also very good internally.
Where do these people get these questions??????
I wanna know.
Anyway, I left a message on Upton’s blog (WonderlandBurlesque.blogspot.com) and he didn’t respond directly but posted later that he’s scheduled the posts and that he’s not being commenting around. Something about self-care and whatnot…
XOXO
A lot of women don't get it because guys don't talk about it. They let their wives, etc just think all they do is have sex with them.
Life, I guess. I don't mind --- that's what I'm here for: To answer questions.
Thanks for telling me about Upton. At least I know he's okay.
XOXO
It was nice that you didn't "talk down" to this woman.
Loved this post. Jacking off for me is at least a daily ritual, so hopefully the study is accurate.
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You see, my Dad always said, nothing better than watching a porn movie from his stash, but your mother better not find out. He walked around the house naked, but your mother better not find out. Why??
Why should a woman be concerned about how often a man masturbates? If she wants more sex, I'm sure a man will oblige.
It's like women think men are simply tools in service of women without their own autonomous needs and desires: they don't even understand male sexual functionality because it isn't something they share and thus have no interest in understanding.
There's a stage of human development called "theory of mind" I believe, where children realise other people aren't just extensions of themselves knowing what they know, but are independent beings with their own separate perspective and lives. It's like women largely failed that stage, so the outside world remains all about them because that's all that exists to that frame of mind: they simply can't understand men can be different.
Why should a man have to talk about what he does with his own body? It's not about her (beyond the reality that he would probably rather have sex than masturbation, but that is under her control).
Women naturally think all men do is have sex with them, because they are only looking with a womans perspective, which is why they are shocked when first confronted with the reality of an independent autonomous action in someone else: it's as if a claw hammer suddenly started pulling nails, when a woman had only ever seen it hammer nails and never thought about what the other end did because it was never useful to her.
This attitude that if it isn't in the service of a woman, then it isn't important seems to have pervaded society. When you think about it, all life is about procreation and the male role is to impregnate as much as possible; however, this is motivated by sexual pleasure so there is a tendency to experience that as much as possible and since sex can't be guaranteed because it depends on another autonomous person, the fallback is masturbation, hence the fundamental existence of frequent ejaculation: the male body is designed around it, except society has tried to suppress it over the centuries. Only now are doctors recognising that reality.
Given the frequency of ejaculatory activity in men, I call into question the prevailing notion of porn addiction, which I believe has evolved from the completely different gynocentric perspective of women being applied to men as if men should behave like women.
These are answers I live by. Thank you for all that you do.
I hope I don't do that with anyone who asks a question. I try not to, anyway.
I think they are fairly accurate. The Aussie one is probably more so than the US one since we're still pretty prudish in this country when it comes to sexual topics.
Here! Here!
Moms have a certain emotional attachment to their children. They don't want to think about them getting older or maturing in a sexual way --- it means the day is nigh that they will be leaving the nest.
You're welcome. 😊
Simple form of jealousy is all. The minute a man's sexual attention is elsewhere, a woman instantly thinks he's no longer attracted to her. It's a bit of a knee-jerk reaction that can be resolved with communication.
Based on the increasingly open hatred of women towards men from a sexual perspective, I can only infer that they see any representation of male sexuality as a trigger for a subjective fear of potential sexual harassment if not sexual assault, if not against herself, then against other women she has an in-group bias with, because it is not objectively analysed over the likelihood of actual risk.
Sex is primitive biology, it doesn't operate on higher order ethics, but you can't simply discard biology for ethics (ie male sex drive for female sexual choice) because that biology still exists and it wouldn't be ethical to ignore its influence. Basically civilisation has reached a dilemma where it has to find win-win solutions to progress, instead of pursuing the old one-sided win-lose (or even worse lose-lose) outcomes. Unfortunately win-win requires cooperative reason, not selfish subjective emotional response.
In answer to the original question, I think doctors have reached a stage of medical knowledge whilst society is starting to recognise the health of men is important and women are no longer the bottleneck to survival of civilisation that required men be considered more disposable; and we have developed beyond the old superstitions that life was only about procreation and not sex, that men are now being treated more favourably by society, especially in their health. Perhaps it is this more reasonable treatment of men that women see as worsening their situation in comparison, when it is simply achieving equality of health, that has led to the recent backlash against men and attempts to gain more for women. Men gain, so women feel they should also gain, for equality, when there was already an inequality for men and we were just catching up.
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