"Over the weekend I logged onto Bateworld for some cambate. It's always nice when you get to see faces and I usually don't hide mine. I was surprised to recognize a friend and quickly adjusted my camera angle because I didn't want him to know I watched him jerking off. But the thing is I'd love to buddy bate with him. Do you think it would be okay to tell him I was online and saw him and invite him for some bate?"
Of course it would be okay. He obviously didn't worry about being recognized. He may welcome it. He may jump at the chance.
But you have to be prepared if he says he prefers camming to jacking off with someone in person. You can express disappointment but that's as far as it should go. It would have to be along the lines of, "Oh, okay. I get it, no problem."
And, if he does demur, the next time you see him or talk to him, make no mention of it unless he brings up the subject.
