Justified?

 

Morning

"We vacay every year with another couple at a beach rental for 2 wks. My wife refuses to have any sex and my nuts get to aching. My buddys wife refuses him too. He says if it happens this year when the girls take their shopping sprees he'll be in the balcony with coconut oil and a towel. What do you think? Would it be ok to invite myself?"

Is anyone extremely vocal during sex? Are headboards banging adjoining walls? Do bedsprings squeak real loud?

If the answer to those is "no," then your wives are being unreasonable. But, "no" means "no" regardless of who is saying it. In such case, I don't blame your buddy at all for taking matters into his own hands.

Here's the thing: There is no reason to suffer when the solution is right at your fingertips. You've got hands that can reach your cock and jacking off will resolve your issue.

Should you join him? As indirect as it may be, he's made the offer by telling you where you can find him and what he'll be doing. He's being open and honest without shame. I say, grab a towel and head on out to the balcony.

Readers? Justified, or not?

Any Suggestions?

Morning

"I consider myself straight but I've always been fascinated by dick. I like to look at them, for sure and love watching j/o videos. A while back I went to a Rain City Jacks meeting. It was an interesting experience watching everyone but not really my thing. How do I find a dude who wants to get together for some 1 on 1? Grindr sucks, they all want more than that and taking an ad on Craigslist is too scary. Any suggestions?"

Trust me, you are not an outlier. Even straight porn focuses on the boners, plain and simple. Particularly when it time for the Money Shot - because that's what everyone is there to see.

The jack off groups aren't for everyone. But they do report that approximately 20 to 25% of those attending identify as straight, and many of those are married.

Particularly in the small private groups.

I think a lot of folks will tell you Grindr is for folks looking for more than mutual masturbation. And Craigslist? Well, let's say it seems a bit, um...seedy? so I don't blame you on that score. Bateworld is mostly an online thing for video chatting and bating.

But, there's a website called Buddy Bate that's exactly what you're seeking. It's specifically for men looking to hook up in real life to masturbate.

The logo has an embedded link

Since you mentioned trying out Rain City Jacks, you'll be happy to know that you'll find a lot of guys in that area on Buddy Bate.

Have a fun weekend.

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Counter Proposal

 

Morning.

The morning wood and coffee - just kind of go together.

A question left on Monday's post:

"My coworker asked me something unusual. I became single at the beginning of the year, and we dirty talk a lot we've seen each other naked too. He was transferred and I met his wife at the last office party. They like cuckold and he asked me if I wanted to join in, he just wanted to watch. He showed me the group on his cell phone that he is part of, but his wife wants someone she knows. How do I refuse the proposal?"

There are people who like the idea of watching. It's like a porn movie playing out right there in front of them. And, yes, there are some folks, like this couple, who like watching their partner. For them, sex is sex and has nothing to do with their love for one another.

How do you refuse the proposal? In my mind, it should be as simple as saying it's not your scene --- not for you --- regardless of what you may have talked about in the past.

Though, I will say, there's nothing wrong with making a counter proposal that might be of more interest to you.

Readers: Any other ideas?