Disabled

 

Morning

Blogger Comment apps are not working for me at all, so I wasn't able to leave comments everywhere during my blog rounds today. But I did visit. I promise.

"I'm stuck in a wheelchair and the only part that doesn't work since a work accident are my legs. My dick gets hard like any other man and it did every time I had a therapy session. Then my physical therapist asked when the last time I got laid. I told him, Before the accident and I'm tired of jacking off. Guess he took pity on me cuz now he gets me off during every session. My problem is that it feels too much like I'm paying for sex.  I'm Bi and tried Tindr & Grindr and they all say sorry but no when they see me answer the door in the chair. I just want to meet someone and have a regular relationship including sex. Any ideas?"

Sorry to hear about the accident. And sorry to hear hook-ups don't work out because of it. Most people don't understand that the disabled are still real people with real wants and needs. I guess your therapist is to be commended - because it had to have been at least a small boost to have him recognize that.

You say you've tried Tindr and Grindr with no success. Those are hook-up apps. If you want a real relationship, you might try one of the dating sites or an actual dating service where folks will know up front about you being in a wheelchair. Believe it or not, there are folks who won't mind that.

Suggestions, Readers? 

A Solution

Good morning.

"I read all the suggestions everybody made and talked it out with my brother.  We talked about jerking off and he said when his balls really hurt a lot he can curl up and suck himself off. Now that I'd like to see. haha. I used to help before I moved out and it never bothered me to have to wash off his jizz and he said our dad never said nothing about that either. Maybe thats why our mom has a tough time. To be honest I gave him a handjob in the shower sometimes  He's going to move in but he'll have to be naked while I'm at work so he can take a pee when he needs and we'll try about getting him a assistant while I'm at work bcuz someone at my work said his disability mnoney might help pay. Tell Thanks to everybody."

I'm happy my readers may have helped you find a solution. I've said it before, and I'll say it again.

I have the best Faithful Readers!

Have a most excellent weekend.

Physical Limitations

Good morning.

"I love your blog. You help a lot of people. Now I guess I need some. My younger brother was born with Achondroplasia only in his arms, which means they are very short. He can't dress or undress cuz he can't reach passed his abs. which means he needs help to pee and stuff and needs help showering. Our dad always helped with those things but he died last month. Our mom freaked out when he got a boner in the shower and now he wants to come live with me. I thought he should stay with our mom but he says he can't. He would get hard when dad washed him in the shower but he never said nothing about it. So now I need to figure things out how to help him. Any ideas would be really appreciated."

According to the National Health Institute:

"Achondroplasia is the most common form of short-limb dwarfism. It is an autosomal dominant disorder caused by a mutation in the gene that creates the cells (fibroblasts) which convert cartilage to bone. This means, if the gene is passed on by one parent, the child will have achondroplasia. However, over 80% of individuals born with this disorder are born to parents who do not have the disorder. It affects mainly the long bones. As a result, individuals who have achondroplasia have short limbs but normal trunk height and head size."

In other words, outside of the shortened limbs, everything else is normal ---- including sexual development and function. Difficulties with normal living can include:

If you are not in a position to take him in and help him with those things, I'd say your brother needs his doctor to have a frank discussion with your mom. She needs to understand that his boners have nothing to do with her - they are nothing more than a physiological reaction. Beyond that, you could suggest a part-time caregiver who won't be bothered by the erections.

We often don't think people with physical limitations have sexual needs, but they do. So, on a more personal level, talk to your brother about masturbation. Has he figured out how to thrust into a mattress or pillow and clean up after himself? Maybe get him something he can thrust into, like a FleshJack. Because if he can masturbate and cum, it might lower the chance his cock will get hard when being soaped up in the shower.

Mixed Bag

I have no answers for yet another mass shooting over the weekend. The LGBTQ+ community, the Jewish community --- well, any "other" community --- is still under heavy attack. All we can do is bond together to help one another when and where we can.

It seems that more and more we must depend on the kindness of strangers for help. Faithful Reader Michael was in a car accident and is now permanently confined to a wheelchair. He lives about 12km (about 7.5 miles) from his nearest grocer in a rural area without public transportation. With help, he can purchase a used car. If you can find it in your heart and pocketbook...

I am sharing this GoFundMe link.

To now go into Monday Funnies seems odd, I know. Though humor, it is said, helps to ease emotional pain.