Disabled

 

Morning

Blogger Comment apps are not working for me at all, so I wasn't able to leave comments everywhere during my blog rounds today. But I did visit. I promise.

"I'm stuck in a wheelchair and the only part that doesn't work since a work accident are my legs. My dick gets hard like any other man and it did every time I had a therapy session. Then my physical therapist asked when the last time I got laid. I told him, Before the accident and I'm tired of jacking off. Guess he took pity on me cuz now he gets me off during every session. My problem is that it feels too much like I'm paying for sex.  I'm Bi and tried Tindr & Grindr and they all say sorry but no when they see me answer the door in the chair. I just want to meet someone and have a regular relationship including sex. Any ideas?"

Sorry to hear about the accident. And sorry to hear hook-ups don't work out because of it. Most people don't understand that the disabled are still real people with real wants and needs. I guess your therapist is to be commended - because it had to have been at least a small boost to have him recognize that.

You say you've tried Tindr and Grindr with no success. Those are hook-up apps. If you want a real relationship, you might try one of the dating sites or an actual dating service where folks will know up front about you being in a wheelchair. Believe it or not, there are folks who won't mind that.

Suggestions, Readers?