I have always insisted on being fully nude - no sheets. I learned early on that it's fairly common for men to develop an erection during massage; especially younger guys. I'm going to suggest you simply relax and enjoy the experience. If your cock gets hard, there's no need to be embarrassed about it.
I've had a mixture of reactions from masseurs about my boners. One got angry and never returned to the room; one placed a towel over it and then ignored it; one put a wet/hot towel on my stomach, oil on my hands, and left the room with, "I'll give you a few minutes to take care of that;" one asked if I wanted him to handle it.
Most, however, - and those were the ones I stayed with until they moved out of town - would continue the massage brushing lightly against my balls, then sliding a hand across my abdomen under my hard-on. With no objection about that, they ran a hand along my cock. A slight lift of my hips gave them the green light. I get massage to relax my body and ejaculation helps accomplish that; it helps to relieve the symptoms of the Muscular Dystrophy.
Tantric, however, is meant to do the opposite; it is meant to charge the body with energy and working on the genitals without ejaculation is believed to accomplish that.
I believe a number of my Readers do massage. They could probably answer better than I.
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Trust you have a relaxing weekend!
I think it is pretty easy to tell if your going to get a happy ending in a massage. If your naked or they brush the cock and balls and it gets noticed, then you can bet there going to finish you off. If they avoid the area, then they have no intention of touching the cock. I have had two different masseurs over the years. Both started my on my stomach, and then I flip to my back with a towel over my cock. By time my full body is done, they both asked out right if they could take care of the tent poking high up. It a final good way to really be relaxed then.
Have a wonderful weekend.
I'm an erotic masseur trained at the Body Electric school, so my massage always includes raising cock energy. Most of my clients are in their 20's and 30's and want a "happy ending". Some of my older clients prefer holding that energy. I'm upfront and have a massage description for clients:
After asking about any needs or desires you’re aware of, I’ll start with you face down, getting the feel of your bones and joints. Gentle strokes applying oil all over. Then smooth oily strokes on your back, your butt, your legs, and your feet - some kneading and deeper work to make you more aware of all of your body. You're breathing long deep breaths, moaning or holding my cock… Some easy glides up and down the crease of your ass, finding out if you're one of the ass tribe, and need more attention there.
Asking you to turn over, connecting your heart and cock with my hands, breathing together. Oiling the front of your body, taking time with your cock to get erotic energy flowing, and then moving around the body spreading that energy. Belly circles, heart circles, U strokes up one leg, across the root chakra, and down the other leg. Getting up on the table with you and pulling you into my lap so I can reach everywhere. Keeping energy building through touch and breath, faster breath now, more charging. You can end quietly, or with a big draw, or you can shoot - your choice!
Then some quiet time - nothing to do, just feel and be – and then an opportunity for you to touch me…
One of the basic massage principles I was taught was that the man on the table should ask for what he wants, and I should respond to that request, either affirmatively or suggesting an alternative or asking for clarification.
So my basic advice is to ask for what you want. You can do this with words but you can also try by waiting for your cock to be touched and then moaning or moving or responding and hope for the best. You might say that you want a whole body massage including your cock. You could also try and find a masseur who has Body Electric or tantric training. I'd also encourage you to try a massage that moves erotic energy but doesn't discharge it at the end.
@ fullmoonma - Thank you for responding for this man. I hope he takes your advice to simply ask. The worst that will happen is he hears, "No, I don't do erotic massage." But, then again, one said that to me, but then proceeded to do just that. It was heaven....
Normally, I find the information on these posts interesting and useful, but for this one, I am taking offense. On reading your response, I am of the impression you expect masturbation as part of the massage experience. That is wrong.
I have gone through 900 hours of course training in ethics, anatomy and physiology and 600 hours of clinical client practice to obtain a state license and insurance. I have been in private practice since 2008, and take annual training courses to bring new modalities into my practice to help my client base with musculo-skeletal issues. I work in conjunction with chiropractors and local doctors.
Being an LMT, I would certainly lose my license, be barred from obtaining another one, lose my liability insurance, and could lose my home (since it also serves as my studio) if I fucked around with a client. It is unethical and quite illegal for a licensed massage therapist to purposefully manipulate genitalia. That's what is then called "prostitution".
I'm not good with this. Don't EVER consider an LMT to be in business for the purpose of masturbating a client! If that's your mindset, then you are sorely wrong. And if you ever get on my table and started playing with your cock, or keep removing the draping - I will end the session and throw your ass off the table.
That said, don't get me wrong, erections are natural. If it happens, it happens and I (as an LMT) adjust the draping (and yes, draping, even in Lomi Lomi, is used) to keep it contained, and then we move on.
And please do not glom us together with a "Male Release Masseuse" who advertise in the back of bar rags; THAT is prostitution - call it what it is.
@ R Rad - Soliciting a hand job before or during a massage is not permitted - that I'm aware of - in any state by a LMT. But, you have to admit that there are masseurs who will take care of it if a guy develops a boner. I have never asked. But, I used to get an erection whether it was a male or female doing the massage. The more relaxed I became the harder my cock would get. If the therapist made any indication - or outright asked - I always appreciated the release.
You either have to be good buddies before hand and have an acknowledgement that a Happy Ending is ok or DO NOT GO THERE! Period!!! An LMT can lose their license over this and can be charged with sexual harassment and/or prostitution. It Is not cool at all. My sister has been an LMT since she was 18 (she is 41 now) and we have talked at length about this issue. She advised me not to get a license because I admitted to her that if a friend was open to and willing on my table, I would give him that release. She begged me to never go through licensure because, I could be liable in many negative ways even leading up to jail time for prostitution. I decided against a career in massage and just share with a select few that I am very good friends with for my own safety.
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