"can u settle a argument 4 me? we have a good time but my wife doesn't like i stroke my dick during sex. it helps keep it hard. i thot all guys did this btween actual fucking.am i wrong?"
I can try. As was mentioned last week: Not all boners are created equal. There will be times when it comes in handy --- pun intended --- to keep a fist wrapped around your cock and stroking while you're doing other things...say, going down on her.
You lose your boner and, suddenly, she's ready but your cock isn't.
Now what? Now you're both having to wait until you're able to get hard enough again.
On the other hand --- pun intended --- if you're stroking your cock and playing with your balls, you're ready when she gives you the signal.
This is something guys understand. Dare I say it? If you hooked up with a man, there would be no complaints.
Guys use their hands. All. The. Time. Even if we're not jacking off, but just lazing around relaxing it's not uncommon to reach a hand down and fondle. Why? Because it feels nice. We enjoy the sensations. We like the feel of a boner.
You need to tell her to chill out and leave the boner maintenance to you.
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Wait.
I thought it was known that all guys stroke their dick to keep it hard. I also thought that women touched their clit to keep the action going?
Maybe I'm wrong cause my M/F sex experience is very vicarious...?
XOXO
A man knows what he has to do to keep it hard. She should be glad he has a hard one. I bet her mind wanders to other thoughts to produce and orgasium.
Very good advice!
Interesting that you said, "Guys use their hands. All. The. Time. Even if we're not jacking off, but just lazing around relaxing it's not uncommon to reach a hand down and fondle. Why? Because it feels nice. We enjoy the sensations. We like the feel of a boner."
Which explains why men have taken up 'male bonding.'
--PaulMmn
There aren't any rules. Since staying hard will make it enjoyable for EVERYONE what could possibly be the issue?? Back to "no rules," that needs to be communicated, but not in the heat of sex, but later in an honest give and take, because it does go both ways, both parties should aim to provide mutual enjoyment.
hugs and bisous.
Oh Sweet Charity!!!!! She needs to get grip. She should be glad she is getting a stiff one in the first place!!! He sounds like too me he is doing everything right...and he's only thinking of her.
When I have sex, I am always lightly stroking my cock between activities and even do it while making out.
Boner Maintenance.... Love it!!
women! how many problems!
@ Six - Yes, of course women touch their clit. For some women it's the only way they can reach orgasm. We all need to allow our partners the freedom to do what assists them. XOXO
@ Paulmmn - That's probably one of the reasons guys have taken to male-male adventures.
@ Jean - Absolutely. It's a mutual goal - or should be. Hugs and bisous.
@ Xersex - Women are much more emotional about relationships. Sometimes it takes some reasoning to get them to understand what is happening and why and how it actually benefits them.
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