Four or Five Hours

 

A reader left a comment on the Tantric Cousin to Edging that he'd read somewhere that singer-songwriter Sting practiced edging. Well, lo! and behold! we've found an article about that here: "Let's Check In On Sting, Our King of Edging" via MEL magazine. (I think I've actually got the link this time.)

"...Over the last three decades, the musician has become known for his penchant for both punishing yoga and tantric sex — two activities he (supposedly) practices regularly..."

When it comes to sex, Sting has found that the journey is the thing to relish, not the destination.

"...He’s also made plenty of references to edging and “four- or five-hour” sex marathons...."

But, the issue for some when it comes to edging is whether it's unhealthy. According to "Where Does the Ejaculate Go If You're Into Edging" Not in the least. But, evidently some horror stories have surfaced, though the medical community begs to differ.

While there's nothing wrong with a "quickie," I'll say, Sting's idea of spending the time to enjoy the pleasure, the journey, is a good one. Too often guys tend to rush toward the ejaculation. Sure, cumming feels great; it's a welcome release.

But the pleasure of getting there should be the focus.

Though, as Faithful Reader Jean pointed out: "Who has four or five hours?"

While you're at it, don't forget to do that

BALL CHECK

Enhance Your Sexual Experiences

 

I've been having a wonderful email exchange with a Reader regarding all manner of things connected with male sexuality.

He sent me a link I believe will be helpful whether or not you are into Tantra. This blog, Extraordinary Passion, is not very active, there have been very few posts since the blog originated in 2013. But, one in particular from 2016 has some terrific information.

"Tantra (Sanskrit: तन्त्र) literally means "loom, warp, weave". "

As it's connected with sex, the initial meaning has not changed, but the weaving is incorporated into the sexual activity.

As explained from a site called Good to Know: "Tantric sex is an ancient Hindu practice that has been going for over 5,000 years, and means ‘the weaving and expansion of energy’.

It’s a slow form of sex that’s said to increase intimacy and create a mind-body connection that can lead to powerful orgasms."

It can be practiced alone, as well, with masturbation. To understand Tantra in connection with sexual practice, you must first have a full understanding of how the male orgasm works; how the body goes from arousal to ejaculation.

You don't have to want to "build and retain" the erotic energy as some men do. You can use the practice of Tantra to simply enhance your sexual experiences.

Full and Busy

There's no need to get depressed.

Sheltering in place, practicing social distancing provides the perfect opportunity for some Tantric pleasure.

I mean, why not? If you don't have to work from home, you've got plenty of time on your hands.

 As Mistress Maddie says, may as well keep them full and busy.

Peak of Pleasure

Guys have often felt envy for the ability of women to have multiple orgasms. We'd love to be able to do that, we say. We can. Yes. It's entirely possible, without a doubt. Faithful Reader Fullmoonma attests to this in his blog detailing his daily practice.

But, before you can achieve this, you have to be able to separate an orgasm

from an ejaculation.

They are two completely different things.

Did you know that a man's orgasm actually happens first, before the ejaculation? The autonomic muscles of the prostate and testicles spasm which force the seminal fluids to exit the body.

As Joe Duncan points out in a recent article for MEL Magazine, "For women, sex is more experience-oriented, for men sex is more goal-oriented, to put it simply.

This is entirely understandable for both of the sexes, considering their biological make-up calls for different things, if we’re talking simple procreation, men definitely need to achieve [ejaculatory] orgasm — women do not. So it makes complete sense that men are much more orgasm-focused than women."

That's fine if procreation is your goal. But, it would seem you'd want to enjoy the ride, extend the pleasure for as long as possible regardless of your sexual orientation. There are many different teachings available out there, from the religious (Tantric)

to practical (Body Electric) seminars.

It's not only physical acuity - it's mental as well. Learning to recognize the Point of No Return - that point where you cannot stop the ejaculation from happening; reaching a peak of pleasure without going over the edge.