Really Fast

 

Morning

"Love the morning photo you post every day and love my morning boner but mine doesn't stick around why it goes soft really fast?"

That's actually fairly normal. Blame it on the end of REM sleep. Those nocturnal blood-oxygen erections happen when we're fully relaxed and our minds are unfocused. The alarm clock wakes us, we move around, the nervous system shifts into waking mode, and our brains begin to focus on the day ahead.

Of course, age plays a part, too. The older we get, the lower the testosterone production --- which is replenished while we sleep.

As long as you can get (and keep) a firm on-demand erection during any sexual activity, there's nothing to worry about.

You want your morning wood to stick around a while? Give it some attention as you wake.

Zero Control

 

Morning

"How can guys stand getting hard so often? It would make me nuts if I had to deal with that every few hours."

It's not like we have much choice. We have zero control. Like menstruation, boners happen and we have to learn to deal with them. In the throes of puberty, it's an almost constant struggle. 

As we age and the hormones settle down, it gets easier because we won't get full-blown boners --- the cock will only fill out to provide the needed blood oxygen to the innermost tissue.

Though do not doubt that at times we actually enjoy those spontaneous erections, especially the morning wood.

Have a good weekend.

Full Function

 

Morning

"i'm in mid 20s was in a accident n have to learn things all over again. walking progress is low n frustration is high. can't raise the dead but woke up hard n wet with jizz. any chance i ever be able to get it up on purpose?"

Sorry to hear about this. It's always difficult to lose function like that at an early age. I'd like to be able to say that the nighttime boner and wet dream indicate full recovery. But I remember Christopher Reeve doing an interview with Barbara Walters years ago wherein he told her, "It's got a mind of its own." That indicated he got hard but not "on demand."

You haven't described your level of injuries, but I suppose it's possible to regain function. If you're lower extremities are slowly regaining sensation and strength, there's hope. Have you asked your doctors about this?

If not, you should. They know --- or should --- how important it is to be able to function for a guy your age.

Your age is an advantage. The healing process is faster when we're young. Listen to your doctors, and I hope you continue to heal.

A full recovery and a return to full function soon.

Barometer Rising

 

Morning

Not getting as hard as you should? Is your Barometer rising properly during the night?

Now, you can find out. The old cumbersome medical devices for measuring and tracking the phenomenon known as nocturnal tumescence are a thing of the past. It was only a matter of time before there was a FitBit for your bits. They were introduced to the market in 2021.

FirmTech offers this for $275.00.

Bill Maher talked about these on his show last week, saying some people are using it to track their partner's erections to see if they are cheating.  Though, with the number of spontaneous boners men get, I don't understand how they would know it was a cheating situation.

I have a tendency to agree with Maher's reaction:

"My Boner, My Business."

And maybe he's just jacking off.

In which case, it's still his business.

What's your reaction?