Step In

I was unaware that yesterday was actually "Unity Day" - a day to combat bullying. Huh; my post happened to be good timing, eh? 😎 Well, I may as well do it properly today.

"After the oldest R went off to college, the youngest R came home from school with a similar story. I asked if he stepped in to help. Nope. I taught both of my boys what I could and steered them to your blog. I told him if he witnesses anything like that again he should say something because he's in a position to educate the other boys. He knows full-well that men can't control when or where a a hard-on rears up. - Dad"

 

 As you know, your boys leave comments here once in a while; sometimes individually, sometimes signed "The 2 Rs." I'd say you have every reason to be proud of them. I'd be willing to bet that if either of them sees any kind of bullying again, they'll help.

Folks, if you see or hear someone being bullied, say something. Step in and help. We need more kindness in the world, not less.

Would-Be Bully

With this being Domestic Violence Awareness, I thought it would be a good time to finally share this. An email from a guy who had an experience you don't hear about very often these days: someone standing up to a would-be bully.

"i follow your advice and dont hide myself after ball practice. last week my dick got hard in the shower and i didn't worry about it when one of the guys from class started making fun of me and telling everyone to watch out because i must be gay. would you believe it that the one guy everyone looks up to came to my rescue. he even called the other guy a idiot and told him he needs tolearn about boners. he said besides who would be interested in your tiny thimble dick? now everyone in school calls that kid thimble dick and laughs at him. now i feel bad for him and want to do something to help but what can i do?"

Well, there's hope for humanity if you have a dude in your school who knows that our cocks have a tendency to stand up when we wash them. Plus, at the age you all are, they'll bone up for absolutely no reason at all except for a fresh supply of oxygen-enriched blood; a BOE (Blood Oxygen Erection).

I hope you thanked your defender. But, what can you do for the guy who made fun of you? I don't know. Ignorance can be tough on dudes your age. Don't shun him. Say hello; don't call him Thimble Dick.

Discourage others from making fun of his cock. For all anyone knows he might be a "grower" not a "shower." 

Most all, tell him guys should never be ashamed of a boner.

Then, since you've been reading this blog, you might explain why we have no reason to be ashamed.

Special Needs

"We have a "special needs" son. His mental capacity is far below par. The other night the family (we have two younger twin girls) was watching TV when our son's body tensed. His breathing increased and he was making these odd sounds, sort of a grunting sound. My wife moved to go to him and I grabbed her arm to stop her. If there's a sign I recognize it's an orgasm. Not that the log in his pants wasn't enough. When it was over, I led him to the bathroom to clean up and change clothes. A large wet spot had already soaked through. He didn't seem scared, but agreed when I said "that felt pretty awesome, didn't it." When he took his pants off he was still as hard as a three penny nail. I wrapped his hand around it and showed him what to do and he came again in less than a minute. For me, it was no different than teaching him how to pee.
But here's the dilemma. He's got two younger sisters. How do I get him to understand he can't drop trou and jerk off anytime an erection strikes? And how do I get the girls to understand what's going on if he does?"

Um.... I don't know anything about raising a special needs child, but I know that mental capacity has no bearing whatsoever on the sexual maturity of the body. He's going to get boners - lots of them. You need to find a way to communicate that he should be in his bedroom to take care of them. 

 

I can only suggest you do an internet search on keywords, like "sexual development in special needs children;" perhaps, a talk with his pediatrician. If he's enrolled in school, you need to let the staff there know what's going on. Depending on the experience of the teachers, they will have dealt with this before and know how to handle it. Still, I'd caution you to keep a very close eye on them - for a while, anyway; it's too easy for adults to take advantage of kids like your son, or treat them poorly.

As for the twins...I'm clueless as to what to tell them should one, or both, suddenly see their brother stroking his cock.

Any suggestions, Readers?

Don't Ignore Them

The list of questions for that reader last week, receives answers.

"I wasn't able to take a proper leak. It dribbled a bit and stopped. Finally went to urgent care only to have the doctor there ask me almost the exact same list of questions. It was so embarrassing to admit that I didn't seem to be able to cum either. and even worse when he told me to drop my pants because my dick was half hard. Then to make it worse I had to admit to him that I had this boner for a few days and my balls ached really bad. You won't believe what this guy did. He put in a catheter  to drain my bladder. Then he pressed on my abs right next to my dick I thought I would pass out from the pain. He said my semenal ducts were swollen. Then he made me roll to my side to check my prostate. My dick got really hard when he did that and some cum oozed. He's doing this and asking if I had a sex partner. When I told him no he said it couldn't be a sex disease. And then he told me I should jerk off more often. How wierd is that? He said I had an infection that caused a blockage. He had me get pills for an infection and told me to try to jerk off every day and come back in 2 weeks."

Not weird at all, actually. A severe prostate infection can wreak all kinds of havoc down there. That's why you couldn't piss and why you couldn't ejaculate with the orgasm, why your balls ached, and why you walked around for a few days with a hard-on. A word of advice: Take the antibiotics as he prescribed until they are gone. Do not stop just because you pee or cum normally.

Men, your prostate needs you to ejaculate. Often. Absolutely no less than twice per week.

But, you need to listen to your body. It sends you signals for a reason.

Don't ignore them.