Friday, September 29, 2023


A comment from a reader on yesterday's post:

"We still haven't heard if the bendy dick or the pump in the balls thing works.

Surely someone must have had the procedure done. Is it worth it? How much does it cost? How reliable is it? Is malfunction a major problem? Does it affect cumming? Do you like it? Would you do it again? All the reasons for the problem doesn't help much - I'd like some solutions."

The semirigid does very well, even for penetrative sex if there is enough lube. They do not fail in the same way the inflatable ones do. The inflatable ones have come a long way in recent years and have only an 11% failure rate. Cost on either one will depend upon the surgeon and hospital charges. Neither will impede the ability to cum -- so long as there is sufficient sensation on the cock to reach orgasm. Log onto Frank Talk (link in the side bar --->>>) where, according to one comment the other day, there are guys who have and openly discuss their experience with implants. Type "penile implant" into the search bar at the top. There are 2091 responses.


"I wrote in about two weeks ago about spending the weekend jerking off while my wife was gone. You all told me there was nothing wrong with it. When she aske me what I did I thought she'd be really pissed but I finally fessed up. You know what she said? She said, you want to jerk off, jerk off. You don't need my permission to play with what's yours. How wild is that??"

Rather than "wild," I'd say good for her and great for you. You have a wife who seems to understand that guys jack off. A lot. It's normal. It's natural. It's the most common sexual activity there is.

Now I'm going to suggest that you include her once in a while. Couples masturbating with and for one another is a common assignment within marriage and sexual counseling. I think you both may be amazed at what you can learn from watching each other.

Now, go have a great weekend.


Sixpence Notthewiser said...

It was very cool for the wife to say that.
I think people are not very willing to confess they masturbate because the significant other may take it the wrong way or think they are not enough.
A good convo early in the relationship takes care of that.


SickoRicko said...

What a neat wife!

Your French Patrick said...

Now I know what I have to do if I didn't know what to do for having a great weekend.

Hugs and bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Have a happy weekend.

Mistress Maddie said...

I was just going to say if his wife has any kind of libido she probably love watching him jack off. Have a good weekend everybody.

Anonymous said...

My uncle once said to me that masturbation is men thing you don't your wife know

Lover of cock said...

I love the first picture, sitting naked in front of two computer screens casually playing with his cock.

whkattk said...

@ Anon, September 29, 2023 at 10:24 PM - Did he explain why?

Anonymous said...

He said because of the pornography, and to not let them feel like they were betrayed, only men understand masturbation

Xersex said...

some women/wives/girlfriends should be happy if their partners masturbate. It is known that men often have a much more frequent desire to have sex than women. Unless in a couple (even a homosexual one) the desire is the same in both, unpleasant situations can be created in which one has more desire and the other less desire. In this case, masturbation is really helpful.

whkattk said...

@ Anon, October 1, 2023 at 7:17 AM - Well, he wasn't wrong. It's slowly changing, thank goodness.