Good morning.
"I just got back from a weekend conference and had to share. A dude that belongs to the same FB group said he wanted to attend but only if he could find someone to share the hotel cost. I offered with the caveat that he'd have to deal with me sleeping naked. He shot back So do I. Fri night we slept like logs. He got up Sat with a huge boner and made no attempt to hide it which meant I didn't need to hide mine. Then that night I asked if he wanted to do anything. He said "I'm going up to the room, strip down, order room service, and relax." Open and honest and laid back. I've never been so comfortable hanging out in the nude and had a great weekend. Can't wait for the next conference. What are the chances?"
It's always nice to share a room with --- as Larry's blog states --- an unashamed male. The chances two people like that would randomly team up might be pretty slim, but you are proof it happens.
Honesty is always the best policy. And in your case it was the proverbial icing on the cake.
As I've said before: Nude isn't lewd.
And boners are normal.
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Am so happy my partner Maximus enjoys hanging out in the nude. It's so easy to celebrate birthday dinners in our birthday suits. We have found several more friends who like to hang out in the nude.
Consent is the key.
You have to state your boundaries/rules.
I would never share a room with a man I'm not boning if he wants to hang out naked, TBW. Not my thing.
But if it is theirs, more power to them.
XOXO
Most companies I worked for when we were put up always made sure everybody has their own rooms. I guess so in case this situation arises, to deter sex with coworkers... and if people want privacy. I only shared a room once with another gay guy...and you can imagine how that went.
I agree with SixPence Notthewiser's comment: Consent is the key and if both partners agree, what else can the people ask for that is better.
Otherwise it would be a kind of rape.
Hugs aNd bisous, my darlings Jean and Pat.
Have a great Tuesday
@ Maddie - I don't think this was work related. It doesn't sound like anything sexual happened. They just enjoyed the freedom of being naked.
@ MFP - Just being naked would be a kind of rape? Mmm. Of the eyes, maybe. Hugs and bisous.
I’m sorry French Patrick lost his dog. That’s like losing a member of the family. Hugs and bisous.
In my teens years I went traveling with my father and we shared a room, my mother packed our bags, and the bad kid I was, I changed his undies with mine, and he kept commando on the day, and slept naked!
love the pics here!
What would be the big deal if something sexual did happen, as long as it was consensual?
I applaud the naturists pushing for comfort with nudity, however it seems to have come at a price of de-emphasising sexuality. By the same token, sexuality must be consensual, so it is a fine line to navigate between the two and people do need to learn how to advertise interest in sexuality beyond mere nakedness that society has been accustomed to for so long we have forgotten how to use our words and create a language of lust.
Nude is not lewd unless you both want it to be.
Merci, Jean
Well, how fun. I adore being nude outdoors. Around other consenting adults. So much fun.
@ Upton - I adore being nude indoors or out. Having other folks around to chat with is a plus.
If we share a room, it's my room too and I can do what ever I'm comfortable, if you don't say anything, it's ok for you too.
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