Friday, November 29, 2024

Counter Proposal

 

Morning.

The morning wood and coffee - just kind of go together.


A question left on Monday's post:

"My coworker asked me something unusual. I became single at the beginning of the year, and we dirty talk a lot we've seen each other naked too. He was transferred and I met his wife at the last office party. They like cuckold and he asked me if I wanted to join in, he just wanted to watch. He showed me the group on his cell phone that he is part of, but his wife wants someone she knows. How do I refuse the proposal?"




There are people who like the idea of watching. It's like a porn movie playing out right there in front of them. And, yes, there are some folks, like this couple, who like watching their partner. For them, sex is sex and has nothing to do with their love for one another.

How do you refuse the proposal? In my mind, it should be as simple as saying it's not your scene --- not for you --- regardless of what you may have talked about in the past.

Though, I will say, there's nothing wrong with making a counter proposal that might be of more interest to you.





Readers: Any other ideas?

14 comments:

Hooter from Owls Rest said...

The counter proposal sounds like a great idea. What you said has great wisdom. Your blog is something We are very thankful for you this year. You add so much insight to your answers. Thank you for the time you invest for all of us. Hooter and Maximus,

SickoRicko said...

He should use the wife's wishes as an out.

nakedswimmer said...

Just say it's not your scene.

Jean said...

A polite no. It seems when you try to say no, you defeat yourself by not shutting up. Own it. Hugs and Bisous.

uptonking said...

At the prairie I've become great at saying no... and you got it right... Oh, that's... that's just not my thing. Good luck. And then talk about how beautiful the day is... :P

rphillips4165 said...

A co-worker no way. If something did get strange then it would slide over into work also. And even no on the three way. Don't mix personal life and work life.

whkattk said...

Aw, thanks. Mostly, it's just common sense (I hope).

whkattk said...

That would be a good way to avoid issues in the workplace.

whkattk said...

It really shouldn't take more than that, should it?

whkattk said...

Oh, I'm one of those people who tends to expound a bit too much when I say "No" to a request. Hugs and bisous.

Anonymous said...

It's a thing now, people are doing it a lot, but not my cup of tea!

whkattk said...

Yeah, the whole polyamory thing is quite the "thing" these days, but not my thing, either.

whkattk said...

It takes a bit of practice, doesn't it?

whkattk said...

I think the Op said the dude was transferred to another location, but still....you're right, it could get messy.