Morning.
The morning wood and coffee - just kind of go together.
A question left on Monday's post:
"My coworker asked me something unusual. I became single at the beginning of the year, and we dirty talk a lot we've seen each other naked too. He was transferred and I met his wife at the last office party. They like cuckold and he asked me if I wanted to join in, he just wanted to watch. He showed me the group on his cell phone that he is part of, but his wife wants someone she knows. How do I refuse the proposal?"
There are people who like the idea of watching. It's like a porn movie playing out right there in front of them. And, yes, there are some folks, like this couple, who like watching their partner. For them, sex is sex and has nothing to do with their love for one another.
How do you refuse the proposal? In my mind, it should be as simple as saying it's not your scene --- not for you --- regardless of what you may have talked about in the past.
Though, I will say, there's nothing wrong with making a counter proposal that might be of more interest to you.
Readers: Any other ideas?
15 comments:
The counter proposal sounds like a great idea. What you said has great wisdom. Your blog is something We are very thankful for you this year. You add so much insight to your answers. Thank you for the time you invest for all of us. Hooter and Maximus,
He should use the wife's wishes as an out.
Just say it's not your scene.
A polite no. It seems when you try to say no, you defeat yourself by not shutting up. Own it. Hugs and Bisous.
At the prairie I've become great at saying no... and you got it right... Oh, that's... that's just not my thing. Good luck. And then talk about how beautiful the day is... :P
A co-worker no way. If something did get strange then it would slide over into work also. And even no on the three way. Don't mix personal life and work life.
Aw, thanks. Mostly, it's just common sense (I hope).
That would be a good way to avoid issues in the workplace.
It really shouldn't take more than that, should it?
Oh, I'm one of those people who tends to expound a bit too much when I say "No" to a request. Hugs and bisous.
It's a thing now, people are doing it a lot, but not my cup of tea!
Yeah, the whole polyamory thing is quite the "thing" these days, but not my thing, either.
It takes a bit of practice, doesn't it?
I think the Op said the dude was transferred to another location, but still....you're right, it could get messy.
I'm in!!!!
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