Any Suggestions?

Morning

"I consider myself straight but I've always been fascinated by dick. I like to look at them, for sure and love watching j/o videos. A while back I went to a Rain City Jacks meeting. It was an interesting experience watching everyone but not really my thing. How do I find a dude who wants to get together for some 1 on 1? Grindr sucks, they all want more than that and taking an ad on Craigslist is too scary. Any suggestions?"

Trust me, you are not an outlier. Even straight porn focuses on the boners, plain and simple. Particularly when it time for the Money Shot - because that's what everyone is there to see.

The jack off groups aren't for everyone. But they do report that approximately 20 to 25% of those attending identify as straight, and many of those are married.

Particularly in the small private groups.

I think a lot of folks will tell you Grindr is for folks looking for more than mutual masturbation. And Craigslist? Well, let's say it seems a bit, um...seedy? so I don't blame you on that score. Bateworld is mostly an online thing for video chatting and bating.

But, there's a website called Buddy Bate that's exactly what you're seeking. It's specifically for men looking to hook up in real life to masturbate.

The logo has an embedded link

Since you mentioned trying out Rain City Jacks, you'll be happy to know that you'll find a lot of guys in that area on Buddy Bate.

Have a fun weekend.