Sometimes

Well, I've kinda lost track of time. It's late already.

This from the guy who wrote in a couple of weeks ago wanting to know how he could tell his room mates that he wanted to try sucking a cock. They'd been masturbating together through COVID and he wondered what it would be like.

"You asked how things went and it couldn't been any better I got my wish I didn't even ask the guys. The next time we kicked back to jerk off I just went for it I leaned over and put my mouth on one of their dicks. The only reaction I got was legs opening wider and a hand on the back of my head. I liked it."

So, I guess that worked out.

If you want to experience something, sometimes you just have to do it.

His Choice

The new interface is clunky. But, given that more and more youngsters are driven by images rather than words, the result is the icon-driven menus. Us old folk will be left in the dust if we don't try to keep up. And I'm not old enough for that to happen. Not yet.

But I'll be honest. If it wasn't for emails and comments with questions, I'd probably let this go.

"My best friend is straight and called me and said he needed to see me. We've never done anything sexual and it threw me for a loop that what he wanted was for me to suck his dick. He claimed he if he had to keep jerking off he was going nuts. I let him talk me into it. He did nothing but lay there while I blew him despite that my own dick got hard but he did nothing to help me out. I told him that was shitty. He said he just wouldn't know what to do because he's not even bi let alone gay. If he asks again what do I do?"

What do you do? What do you want to do? If you're a willing receptacle, he'll keep asking. If you want some type of reciprocation, you need to tell him that and stick to your guns.

"He said he just wouldn't know what to do..."?

Really? He's got a cock in his hand every time he masturbates but he says he wouldn't know what to do? Uh, sorry, I don't buy that excuse. Neither should you.

If he comes over and asks again, the results are up to you. Put his hand on your cock and give it to him straight (no pun intended). He can at least lend a hand or he can go back to jacking off.

Make it his choice.

More Skilled In Oral

I just read an article by a writer I have admired for many years. It was all about the myths of men and sex. One myth is that men always think sex is good. "When sex is good, it's great; when sex is bad, it's still good."

The author contends we should never tell a partner the sex wasn't that good. I agree in theory. Expressing disappointment in a sexual encounter can be hurtful. But it doesn't have to be that way. We all need to be more skilled in oral sex.

Learn to communicate with a sexual partner and the sex will (almost) always be good. Learn what feels good for you and express it verbally. We learn by doing.

And by watching one another.

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Don't forget: It's Movember.
Do the right thing.

Get 'em checked.

Did You?

Startling new information about HPV - human papilloma virus. Fifty percent of parents are refusing to get their age-appropriate (11 and 12) kids vaccinated. It would seem they aren't aware of the ravages this common virus can wreak.

This vaccine prevents a variety of cancers. When asked in a survey by the Annals of Internal Medicine, more than 80% of men and women, ages 18 - 26, didn't know that HPV causes: Cervical, anal, penile, throat, and oral cancers.

Did you?

A few years ago a friend of mine went through treatment (surgery, radiation, chemo) for an oral-throat cancer. He's in his 70s, never smoked, never drank to excess, and wondered how or why he developed the cancer. Well, oral sex - at some point in his life - with someone who had the HPV virus is likely the cause.

Did you know that "catch-up" vaccination is recommended for anyone up to age 26?

 Did you know you can still get vaccinated if you're between the ages of 27 and  46?

Talk to your doctor.

It would probably be a very good idea if you are not in a monogamous relationship and indulging in unprotected oral or anal sex.