"Gay" Toys?

 

Is there really such a thing as a "gay" sex toy? Butt plugs? Dildos? Vibrators? Masturbation sleeves? Pumps? I think they are all used and enjoyed by both sexes to some extent. Well, maybe not the penis pumps. 🙄😂

But the question remains: Do straight guys have to stick with "straight" toys?

Or a universal thing like the FleshJack?

Way back in September, fellow blogger Sixpence posted about straight porn actor Beau Gunnar trying out sex toys on an episode of Davy Wavy. Beau made the comment, "Pleasure doesn't have a sexual orientation."
This post of mine has been languishing as a draft ever since. Not sure why....

I wholeheartedly agree. Completely cut the idea of labeling anything as gay or straight.

With toys or without.

The only consideration should be the amount of pleasure one derives.

Straight Men Do, Too

Two things. First an update.

"I got your second response and took the advice. I called my sister and got a very hearty "Please!" when I suggested a talk with her son. "Jesus Christ, maybe he'll calm down a bit if he knows he's got permission to jerk off." So, the talk went well. He understood my misgivings about dropping trou and showing him, as my wife suggested. Judging by the amount of paper towels in the waste basket, he thoroughtly enjoyed the clips you suggested. The questions after were straight-forward and easy to answer. I think he's actually relieved to find out he's just a normal horny teen."

Well, so there ya go. It's easier than we all fear when we face The Talk. The next email was a bit onerous at first.

"Why do gay dudes love taking it up  the ass so much?"

Well, pardner, it ain't just gay men who enjoy that. You've heard about the women's G-Spot? Well, for men, there's this thing called the Prostate. Manipulating and stimulating it increases the hardness of a boner, and it feels really good.

Look up "pegging" and you'll discover that straight men "love taking it up the ass," too. 

External pressure, or pushing a finger in...

And, though not too many will openly admit to it, but leave them alone in a room with their wife's or girlfriend's vibrator....

There's so much more to sexual pleasure than your cock. 

Everyone Deserves a Little Me Time

Questions from readers and I am more than happy to answer them. As you all know, I'm pretty much an open book. No doubt, some of you are thinking, Yes, too open! LOL.

Faithful Reader, Jean, asks if massage helps. Yes, it really does. Particularly if the masseur takes caution and doesn't dig or knead too deeply into the muscle. (The current one is still way too rough.)

And, of course, if at some point he brings me to ejaculation (which he does) it helps even further.

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It's difficult seeking out masseurs. As I've said before, I get a hard-on with every massage; man or woman, it never fails. And I do warn them ahead of time now because of a few very bad experiences. Discretion must be maintained (I certainly don't want anyone to lose their license), yet for medical reasons I do appreciate the extra attention.

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Our favorite Mistress asks if my wife takes her needs into her own hands. Yes, she does. A few years back, I gave her a very nice vibrator which she uses.

And, many years ago, I gave her a beautiful vibrating dildo which I used to employ for her pleasure; I know she hauls it out once in a while. (And, no, I do not use it. lol)

There were plenty of times we would lie side by side and masturbate together - or each other.

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Spouses and partners should absolutely be free to masturbate - even if there is no medical problem. There are many reasons one might prefer to simply jack off rather than engage in partner activity, not the least of which is the wish to touch, fondle, stroke, and take as much or as little time as desired without having to worry about satisfying a partner. We all need and deserve a little "me time."

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Man Toys

We generally think of masturbation as something that can only be done with our hands. 

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And while it's probably true most of the time, it doesn't have to be that way. Thankfully, toys for men are becoming much more popular. And much more accepted. Especially for the single guy who, though not talked about, is thought to be without any other means of sexual release.

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As jacking off becomes more acceptable, a guy no longer needs to hide in the bathroom, trying to shove his boner into the toilet paper tube.

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He doesn't need to be ashamed of having a sex toy or two in his bedroom. Cock Ring Vibrators being sold with condoms have given the battery-operated buzz for men a healthy boost in the right direction.

The "Family Planning" sections (where condoms are stocked) of many stores, like WalGreens and CVS, have even begun to carry things to increase stimulation and sensations

Sleeves have come a very long way. The most popular is the FleshJack.

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This wonderful number was originally designed to look like a flashlight and called the FleshLight - therefore it could be left on a nightstand, or in a dresser drawer without fear of discovery.

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And used in a number of "hands-free" ways with the Shower Attachment

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Goodness, now they've got attachments for the wall.

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Pumps have gotten a bit more mainstream. Not for enlargement purposes, but for the enjoyment.

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 Like this one that has a sleeve that strokes your cock

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And toys that stroke away all by themselves (though nothing beats the AccuJac, except in price)

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The Aneros Prostate Wand, the prostate massager has led the way to more healthy prostates. Helping men discover their G-spot; helping men have more intense ejaculations. Which, of course, is aiding sales of dildos of various shapes to gain traction - even among straight dudes because now every dildo isn't shaped like a porn star's cock.

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Whatever your choice, toy(s) or hands

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 the point is to enjoy yourself.

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 Maybe even with some assistance

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Enjoy yourself this weekend.
What do you have in your Toy Box?