Lube or Dry?

 

Good morning.

"Do most guys use some kind of lube or do they dry jack?"

Unless they're using some kind of toy, I think most guys probably jack off without lube.

Or rely on precum.

Or saliva.

Just bear in mind, there's no right or wrong. Do whatever brings the sensations you prefer.

Happy Masturbation Month.

Complete and Satisfactory Orgasm

 

"The last week or so has been awful.  I been shooting a load at least three times a day but its not satisfying at all and it still feels like my balls are going to explode. Is there anything I can do to about a constant urge to cum?"

I can relate. And I can certainly sympathize. I think most guys could.

Just like women, men's hormones fluctuate. We all have those periods of extremely high libido once in a while, usually due to a surge of testosterone. The boners are super hard, and it can seem like nothing we do takes care of them. The hard-on will subside only to pop back up again, nagging us, until we whip it into a frenzy in an attempt to beat it down as fast as possible.

The problem with doing that is the intensity of the orgasm is missing. One thing that may help is to slow down. Use lube, if you aren't already.

Lacking a partner, if you have a masturbation sleeve, or a FlashJack, use it in a manner to mimic penetrative intercourse by thrusting into it.

At the very least, thrust through your hand.

That might help increase the sense of more natural sexual movement leading to a more complete and satisfactory orgasm.

Readers, any other ideas that worked for you, that might help this young man?

Practice Makes Perfect

 

"Control yourself, man!"

Sometimes easier said than done. But learning control is all part of satisfying sexual encounters.

Even if that encounter is only with yourself.

Premature ejaculation is defined as "anytime you reach orgasm before you want to." And the only way to overcome cumming too soon is by gaining control over it. The point of no return is the moment when your abdomen muscles tense, your cock gets harder, and your balls pull up. A second or two later the spasms start, the gusher issues forth, and there's nothing you can do to stop it.

We've probably all been there at some time or other during our lives. But we can tame that volcano so it erupts only when we're good and ready --- or when our partners ask us for it.

Masturbation is the best way to recognize the signs. Let your education commence by wrapping your fist around your boner and stroking away. If you sense your boner getting harder, back off. Find some other form of stimulation; let your cock go and play with your balls or your nipples. Or lightly graze your hands across your stomach and inner thighs. Anything or anywhere that won't further arouse your cock.

After the elevated sensations leave and the muscles relax and the cock softens a bit, go back to stroking.

A  terrific tool in the masturbation arsenal for learning: Any type of sleeve. Heck, that sleeve could even be your hand by holding it in place and thrusting in and out of it. The trick when doing this is to not clench your butt cheeks.

Clenching squeezes and stimulates the prostate. The Male G Spot. Keep the butt relaxed until you want to fire your missile. 

Control yourself, and increase your own pleasure and satisfaction. And remember: Practice makes perfect.

Oh, and don't forget...

Besides, it'll give you one more hour for...well, you know...practice.